TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 17. New Year, new hope for all!

[Primrose16]

Oops the other one got full before new one made. Kept the same name to make it easier to find.

Hi ladies! I’m hoping I can join... I had a miscarriage in December 2017 at 12 weeks and it was devastating. This is now my third month TTC since I miscarried and it’s driving me mad! I just want to be pregnant again I’m only 1dpo but really hoping that this month is it as it is my SO birthday in two weeks and I’d just love to tell him on his birthday. I hope that everyone gets their BFP and a very sticky bean too! I have my FX for all of us. Good luck ladies

@hayleyfx welcome! I'm fairly new to this too and am so like you in that I just really want to feel pregnant again, it was the happiest feeling (until all the worries & anxiety kicked in!)
I'm feeling a bit frustrated today and I know it's early days as my mc was only a few weeks ago, but I just so want to be pregnant again as I feel it'll help me move on. BUT my DH isn't around and I'm pretty sure I'm ovulating today!
Not his fault, but so frustrating to know that means it'll be another cycle before any chance of catching. hey ho.

@hayleyfx I also meant to say am so sorry for your loss in December. It really is devastating.

@BabynameEdie thank you, I am so sorry for your loss also. It’s the hardest thing I’ve been through. I totally understand, when I was pregnant it was the happiest I have ever been! I can’t wait to have that feeling again. I really hope your BFP is just around the corner... FX for our rainbow babies

Just done this 5 mins ago as I’m getting frustrated with a period no show. What do we think? I think I see a light line- I’m spotting so don’t feel very confident.

Welcome @hayleyfx I’m sorry for your loss. I hope this is your month too. Would be a fab birthday present.

@babynameedie so frustrating that DH not around. Have you managed any ‘deeds’ prior? Or is he away away

I am keeping my fingers crossed for you @boboelephant I hope it’s your month.

@Primrose16 defo line there!!! Congrats 😊, how many dpo are you. I had pink tinged mucus earlier so bricking it as well 🙄

@Primrose thank you! Fingers crossed 🤞🏼 I see a second line on your test definitely, congrats! I really hope it’s a sticky bean for you 😊

@Primrose16 I have little experience with these tests but if you're asking if there's a second line then yes I can def see one. Faint but there! I should get some of these - more to obsess over.

And no he's away away, has been away for a week now and back tomorrow night. Ahhh! Last BD was a week ago on Saturday (3rd) so I think am kidding myself that there's any hope for this month. But body so tipsy turvy that who knows...

@BabynameEdie would tomorrow night be too late. I’m honestly rubbish with the planning bding

@Primrose16 I hope not 🤞🤞 it's definitely the first thing planned when he gets home!! Poor guy! Am useless with dates / planning. It's all so new to me. Our first pregnancy which I lost a few weeks ago happened without any monitoring as we were so convinced it would take forever to conceive, so thought we'd 'get down to business' after our holiday. Turns out the holiday was the perfect setting! But sadly that little bean didn't stick.
What's the next step for you? More waiting? I feel like it's constant waiting. 🤞for you. I've read some implantation bleeding is v normal, that could be what you saw earlier.

Not sure how many day po I am. I don’t track. But I honestly think it should be darker if it is a positive. Not getting hopes up x

@babynameedie my little girl I didn’t track, it was stressing me out so I stopped, the dropped on with a sticky one.
I think I will just leave a while now, see if period comes- maybe drop hints to hubby that I’m late. I said that if I dropped on again I would try to see doctor about a early scan. So might try that if I remain positive.

I hope so, that’s it jump him as soon as he walks through the door

Welcome @hayleyfx. So sorry you're here. I just want to be pregnant again too. Think we all feel like that here!!
@Primrose16!!!! That's a definite line! No questions! Congratulations!! Some spotting can be perfectly normal. As long as your line keeps getting darker and the bleeding doesn't get too much heavier. Fingers crossed!! When can you get a scan? And Thankyou!! I really hope I can join the bfp club! 🤞🤞
@BabynameEdie good luck for tomorrow. Haha my DH would think all his christmasses had come at once if he was coming home to that first thing! 😉
@keepinghopeful when can you get a scan too? 🤞🤞

@Primrose16 we were typing at the same time. I think you just ovulated later than you thought and it's a early positive. It's darker than some I've seen and unlike opks it doesn't have to be dark to be positive. A line is a line! But if you can wait a few days good for you. I'd be testing every day from now on! Haha. But don't aspire to be me!

@boboelephant, I might only have 3 tests left 🙈
But if I ovulated later then wouldn’t have caught it (got tired of all the dancing) unless they hung around up there!

@primrose 16 yes yes yes 👏🎉

@Primrose16 technically you could get preggers from swimmers 6 days old!!

@Boboelephant ill be able to get scanned early as im rmc but will see how it goes. I get random hormonal spotting so will for now believe its that or the cyclogest pessary has annoyed cervix - have to keep thinking positive 😊

@Primrose16 hcg should double every 48 hours so test again in 2 days. It should be darker by then.

@keepinghopeful yes keep positive!! 🤞🤞🤞

@Boboelephant yes true - he'll be delighted to be pounced in immediately! 😂 but I think he does know it's only while I'm fertile!! 🤦‍♀️

@Primrose16 buy some more tests! 🤞🤞

Congratulations @Primrose16 and that is a definite line. I really hope everything goes well for you.

Congratulations to alll those who had BFPs! @Primrose16 there is definitely a second line on your test - congratulations!