Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Original poster

This is positive isn't it?

17 replies

BumbleNova · 12/02/2018 08:34

I'm not due til Friday but DH and I had a mishap last month around ovulation.

I POAS but it was showing a nice strong negative. Got out the shower a few minutes later and there was a line?

This wasn't planning so what do I do now? Folic acid??

This is positive isn't it?
This is positive isn't it?
This is positive isn't it?
OP posts:
Original poster
BumbleNova · 12/02/2018 08:35

Arrgh baby brain already I meant it wasn't planned!

OP posts:
4thtime · 12/02/2018 08:39

I am see something but I'd test again in a couple of days as it depends how long the test had been left for x

Original poster
BumbleNova · 12/02/2018 09:11

Is it 10 mins max? Yes I kicked myself for not timing it. I didn't wait 3mins before I jumped in the shower. Idiot. Going to test again Wednesday. I've also had some v minor spotting.

OP posts:
raraa · 13/02/2018 08:56

I def see a second line! I got bfp with frers recently so retest in a few days xxx

unicorncow · 13/02/2018 18:25

Did you retest? @BumbleNova

raraa · 13/02/2018 18:35

I've just realised I wrote bfp not evap 🙈😔 sorry!

Original poster
BumbleNova · 13/02/2018 19:55

Retesting in the morning! Gaah not sure what result I want...

TMI Blush but my nipples look v weird?! Is that a symptom? I've had some light spotting today too.

OP posts:
Original poster
BumbleNova · 13/02/2018 19:56

@raraa what is an evap?! Testing newbie.

OP posts:
BifsWif · 13/02/2018 20:40

They’re positive!

raraa · 13/02/2018 20:55

An evap is an evaporation line on a test, the blue dye tests are notorious for them but I got one with the FRER last time xxc

pumpkinbump · 13/02/2018 23:13

I can see lines on those.

Original poster
BumbleNova · 14/02/2018 08:25

It was a very clear positive this morning. Both of us completely freaking out, just wasn't the plan. My mum died a couple of weeks ago, I'm just not sure I can do this without her? Oh god. I miss her so much.

This is positive isn't it?
OP posts:
raraa · 14/02/2018 09:13

@BumbleNova oh congratulations!!! I'm so happy for you!!! Your mum is with you, don't be scared, she's got such a smile on her face because of this xxx

Peanutty86 · 14/02/2018 09:38

Don't mean to offend or be insensitive, might not be your cup of tea whatsoever, but have you have thought that there's a reason you got pregnant when your mum died?
I fell pregnant the week of DH relatives funeral who had died unexpectedly just a few weeks after the spouse had died unexpectedly too. We kind of took it as a sign....

Original poster
BumbleNova · 14/02/2018 09:52

I'm just so gutted she won't get to meet our baby and who I call if I'm worried? Can't stop bloody crying.

OP posts:
MistyMeadow · 14/02/2018 09:55

I thought the same Peanutty, sometimes things are just meant to be. Congratulations OP, all will be absolutely fine, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mum

Peanutty86 · 14/02/2018 11:04

You will find a way. You will speak to your mum in your thoughts and it will still give you comfort. You have the chance to be a mum yourself, surely your mum would be so proud of you. Yes it's a shame she won't meet her grandchild but I'm sure she knew what was to come. One life goes, another one comes.... it's special. And eventually you will recognise your mums looks or character in your own child. Hang in there, it's all worth it. A baby is the best thing that could happen at this sad time.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page