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BFN at 11dpo.. anyone else just fed up?!!

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LouLouB1987 · 30/01/2018 08:40

Just ranting. Sick of seeing one line. Sick of my body playing tricks on me. Sick of AF. And sick of TTC all together!!!

This was cycle 12, AF due 4th Feb. Had a strange one this month. No PMS at all, usually regular 28 days, boob ache after ovulation right up to AF but this month, nothing. Been really crampy too. So i hoped for the best, let down again! I know its still 5 days until AF but hoped a first response would give me that illusive BFP!! Ah well, I'll moan, nothing will change and I'll be back here again next month 😂

Rant over!!!

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raraa · 05/02/2018 17:04

Yeah bloods came back negative so still waiting for af to arrive. I'm 2 weeks late now, it's frustrating. Have a great holiday and try to relax, let nature take its course xxx

LouLouB1987 · 06/02/2018 11:23

Awww @raraa you never know i guess but it seems you might just be having a strange cycle! AF arrived last night so Im out this month! Ive decided im not keeping tests in the house anymore or tracking. Deleted my app and just going to try and forget about it. Its too devastaing to go through this every month!!! Xx

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Claire78564 · 20/05/2019 19:38

@LouLouB1987 hope you are well. I found this thread after testing at 11dpo only to get s BFN and I’m feeling pretty low about it. I wondered if you got your BFP in the end? Xx

Td87 · 15/02/2021 23:41

Hi everyone just wanna jump in maybe give some of uz some hope il give u a run down of my signs symptoms etc this is my 5th child.
Day 3 po I had a headache that I never usually get
Day 5 very energetic sore lower back pain and was having mood swings
Day 7 energetic mood swings I had a couple spots on my chin and lower back pain
Day 8 had headache back pain and little tied
Day 9 backache
Day 10 backache and happy took test negative
Day 11 no bowel movement backache test negative
Day 12 constipated couple irrigated mood swings but was ok I did feel like my legs was getting on my nerves a bit tingling sensation. Negative test
Day 13 negative test constipated
Day 14 constipated positive test
In the mean time in all this I never had any implantation bleeding hardly any cm only last couple days and can’t see it only feel it. I also never had and swelling of breast no nipple changing nothing.
1 day I did have a shooting pain in my breast that was it. My biggest tell sign I would say was vivid dreams I knew straight away that’s why I kept testing I was dreaming everyday from 2dpo and I could remember them and felt so real I had this with all my pregnancies.
I did first response test and clear blue everyday on 13dpo there wasn’t even the slightest of a line not even a squinter woke up this morning day 14dpo took clear blue digital said pregnant 1-2 weeks.
So if u r all getting bfn at 11 12 or 13 dpo there’s hope for uz. I ovulated on day 17 also

Tammi3232 · 15/02/2021 23:52

I’m sorry, I feel your pain... I’m also 11 DPO today, and got a BFN. We’ve been trying for 2 years and this is our second attempt with IUI. This whole process can get quite frustrating at times! Fingers crossed for you, I hope things work out soon.

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