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Please help :( sad and confused after overjoyed

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xLeanne128 · 24/01/2018 18:27

On Saturday morning I did a test with fmu frer and got my first BFP. I was over the moon. I know I shouldn't but since then I've been testing (7 different tests) all positive but digital still saying not pregnant? I understand they read different levels of hah but surely since Saturday they should of shot up? Ovia says I'm 4 weeks 4 days but I'm convinced I'm losing it or I'm going to lines also don't seem to progress? I've had some blood but not much at all. Ovulated on 6th of Jan and dtd too. I've just tested and got a good positive but I'm concerned. Is it time I ring the doctors.. tests from Saturday to yest. Clear blue right now.

Please help :( sad and confused after overjoyed
Please help :( sad and confused after overjoyed
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xLeanne128 · 24/01/2018 18:29

Had cramps too. Unsure what's going on to be honest just got a really bad feeling.

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Desmondo2016 · 24/01/2018 18:50

You're pregnant.... that's what's happening! All sounds totally normal. Youll get a bfp on the digital in a day or 2. You may have some spotting for the next few weeks or even months. Oh and you'll constantly feel cramps and stretchy pains and feel like you're about to come on for the next 8 weeks or so.

Congratulations!!!

Desmondo2016 · 24/01/2018 18:50

I think you possibly conceived a little later in the month than you think!

xLeanne128 · 24/01/2018 19:19

Thanks for advice. Not possible I've logged everyone we DTD and did opks. Opks showed positive Saturday until Sunday evening. We DTD twice on sat only thing I can think to justify my crap lines and maybe low levels is if I implanted slightly late? My levels don't seem to be growing? Guna try get in at doctors tomorrow hopefully they'll do a blood test and ill know for defo either way. Just got a bad feeling but praying it sticks!! Xx

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StrawberryToast · 24/01/2018 19:19

This happened to me with the digital ones too, don't worry op! As you can see even your normal sticks are struggling with a solid line (100% positive but still faint) so the digital one just can't pick it up yet. I agree with pps that you probably just got pregnant later in the month. Congratulations!

xLeanne128 · 24/01/2018 19:21

Opks showed negative Monday 8th the only time after this we had sex was the 12th? That's not possible is it...

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Dozer · 24/01/2018 19:23

Step away from those tests!

Nothing you can do but wait and see.

NimbleKnitter · 24/01/2018 20:24

Opks can't pinpoint ovulation. They show your body gearing up for ovulation, so it could easily have happened a day or so later.

Hgc levels rise at different rates for different women - some are faster at the beginning, some are faster a few weeks later.

No point seeing a doctor - they won't do a test. They take your word for it because home tests are so reliable.

If you're still worried, give it a few days. You'll have a blazing positive by then.

For now - get on your folic acid. Now's the time you really need it - you're making brains

Imnotposhjustquaint · 24/01/2018 20:44

If it reassures you at all, when I was pregnant with DD I had period cramps and actually went and stocked up on tampons etc in anticipation of AF.

Anyway AF never arrived, kept waiting and dismissing the idea of being pg due to the cramps. Anyway eventually did a test and it was positive. I also had some bleeding although very light but pink, had an early scan and all was fine.

xLeanne128 · 25/01/2018 16:05

Had some red spotting today. Going to early pregnancy unit on Saturday as doctors didn't want to know. They've booked me a scan (god knows why I told them my dates on phone but she said they go off last period which would put me at 6 weeks. I think I'm 5 week Saturday so a scan isn't guna reassure me at all??) Hopefully they'll do more tests but who knows.

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xLeanne128 · 25/01/2018 19:16

Sat on the toilet and have blood and clots :( guess it wasn't meant to be. Goodluck all.

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Nomorecakes · 25/01/2018 19:24

So sorry. But it’s maybe still implantation. Hopefully you will get some answers from your scan.
Everything crossed for you xxx

Pidlan · 25/01/2018 19:28

So sorry op, this happened to me too and it's horrible :( I had one of those internal scans which showed nothing, but as it was early pg they said it might not show up anyway. They then did a test to show some hormone level, which showed I was no longer pg. :(
Huge massive hugs to you. Let yourself feel sad for a bit, it it a horrible thing to go through x

twobambinos · 25/01/2018 22:10

I'm so sorry this has happened me too a few years ago. My doc recorded as an early loss. Big hugs to you.

xLeanne128 · 26/01/2018 01:58

Woken up to cramps and an awful pulling sensation down to my bits bleeding more too. Still going to attend unit on Saturday for support and see if all is ok (never was checked after ruptured ovarian cyst and fluids on pelvis for weeks)

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Dozer · 26/01/2018 06:59

Very sorry this has happened.

Chocolatesprinkledcrumpet · 26/01/2018 08:04

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had a MC scare just this week, so I can totally relate to what you are going through.

I won't say chin up, but another month will come, and who knows, we might both end up on the March bus. Feel free to PM me if you need a chat.

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xLeanne128 · 26/01/2018 09:28

Thankyou all having a bed day today and will ring EPU and hopefully they'll still see me and not shrug me off. Was considering not telling them about amount of loss? Don't want them to tell me not to bother. Doctors have already past me on.

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schmagetti · 26/01/2018 09:58

Hi love, I had the same thing a few weeks ago, it's so tough. I'm going to really force myself not to test until I'm at least a week late next month. Good luck at EPU Thanks

xLeanne128 · 26/01/2018 10:38

I can't believe how many women have experienced this :( it's awful! People (me too) think ttc is the hard bit. I thought yay I'm pregnant job done. So wrong! I'm desperate for our first child but think I'll have to wait a few cycles to see if I'm back to normality. Thinking of all who have experienced this xxx

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xLeanne128 · 26/01/2018 12:08

The nurse said if I still wanted to go for scan and blood tests to confirm I could. I'm going to go hoping it will give me some closure x

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Gre8scott · 26/01/2018 12:38

This happebed to me last qeek was totaly convinced i was pg as had all the systoms i had the first time but the day before my period was die i started bleeding treid to thibk it was implantion but not it was a period x

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