78th day of no period....

[SpadesOfGlory]

As the title suggests, I haven't had a period since the 18th October. I came off cerazette at the start of June and have had irregular cycles since but this is by far the longest.

DH and I are TTC and I last took a pregnancy test at the start of December so I'm fairly confident I'm not pregnant (we were both sick after that and didn't have any inclination to DTD).

We finally DTD on 26th and 27th December and yesterday I had really sore breasts and some cramps and EWCM in the morning for the first time in a long time, but we only managed to DTD late last night. Im mildly cramping this morning and have watery CM. These long cycles are so confusing! Is there a chance we might've caught ovulation this month? How long should I wait before testing?

@tinyradish Oooh! This is exciting!!! I saw the weirdest thing on another thread, this lady had a faint line on a FRER and then AF turned up the next day.

@Karigan1 Good googling there girl! Noted x

I was getting ready to try next month, but I’m on CD35 and still no sign. I thought I’d worked out when I ovulate but now I’ve got no clue 😡😡 Because I’m in a same sex relationship, we have to be really precise when we’re ordering the sperm so now we might have to wait a few more months.

I don't know if it's Sunday Blues but I just feel crappy. CD114 and I have had sore boobs for over a week. I am super sensitive today, DH got some diesel on his jeans and I swear it felt like it was under my nose, so so strong, I was really sensitive to it (but that might just be because its diesel I guess?). My hair is super greasy after 1 day, I tied it up in a bun this morning and took it down about 4 hours ago and my hair/head still aches!
Rant over.

@LifeOfRiley63 Hopefully your system is kick starting again and AF arrives in the next few days, or better still a bfp 😀

I’m betting it’s your system gearing up too :).

Fingers crossed for one or the other

Preferably the latter Thank you lovelies, really needed some reassurance x

End of the day and still no sodding AF. Just a touch of spotting. WTF is my body playing at this time lol.

@Karigan1 Have you got any FRERs? xx

I really don’t think a BFP is possible as keep spotting and boobs no longer sore. If something doesn’t happen by tomorrow I’ll test but that’ll mean I ovulated 72hrs after peak and had a 16 day luteal phase

Hi Ladies,

so I was at the doctors today. I have to now wait until the end of March which will be 3 months and if still no AF then I have to go for a gyne examination and blood tests.

The doctor said that if I wasn't haven't periods whilst on Cerazette then I haven't been ovulating and she said this can take hormones longer to balance out when stopping, I asked if there was anything I can take and she said they can prescribe a pill to bring your period along but they wont do that until 3 months as it can mess up your body more. Today is day 43 for me which is nothing in comparison to others but I just don't think I can wait until the end of March. I am at my wits end and just feeling soo down now

Hey Tink, it was round day 50 my system got going again. It won’t be much longer

Thank you @Karigan1 I Hope im lucky, its just on your mind 24/7 and im just soo worried that my body wont work and I wont be able to have children! I know I keep saying it but NEVER EVER again will I take another pill of any brand!! Did you have any symptoms before AF arrived?

How are you feeling today? xx

I feel absolutely fine lol. I reckon there’s going to be a chainsaw massacre today ;) which is good news as means I didn’t ovulate too early and don’t have a short luteal phase (thinking of positives).

I don’t really get pms cramps etc so the first sign of actual AF was boobs no longer sore and spotting. In the weeks running up though it was awful with bloating, cramps huge sore boobs. I think it’s just the hormones gettingback on line so things like that are good signs. :)

Have to say I have the same worries but with probably more grounds as I’m 40 lol x

@Karigan1 Good for you thinking on the positives, wish I had those thoughts!

See I had cramps, bloating and tender boobs all of last week and thought happy days this is it and frigging still nothing yet. But as you say those symptoms may be my body slowy starting to kick start. xx

I had at least a couple of weeks of that kind of stuff before it happened. I bet it won’t be long!

Thank you soo much for the reassurance, really glad I found this chat, glad to have you ladies to talk too! I really appreciate it xx

@Tinker315b
I got my AF on day 44 off the mini pill cerelle (very similar o cerazette)
Really hope it won't be too much longer for you! It's so frustrating isn't it.
I ordered extra strength agnus cactus online on day 43 and typical I get my AF back on day 44!
I'm on CD19 of my first official cycle trying to conceive- just hope I now have a regular cycle! Xoxo

Ohhh gossip girl have you been using opks. Crossing fingers for you :)

@Karigan1

Yes I used OPKs from CD10. I got faint lines early on CD13, morning of CD14 and then a strong positive OPK at 10pm on CD14. Did another OPK at 6am on CD15 and it was positive. By midday on CD15 my OPKs were negative. Had I not done 3 OPKs per day I would have missed my surge.

I've gone all out though 😚 I've got the ovia app and glow app. I've been using fertility lube and tried tracking my temperature.

In December I did have a 'relaxed and il see how things go' attitude. 2 months later and getting pregnant is all I think about
Xoxo

@gossipgirl28 What mg of agnus castus are you taking? Fingers crossed for you that you get your BFP soon! Yes I think its just the not knowing that sends you mad lol xx

@Tinker315b I ordered 1000mg from amazon as I read up and it was recommended to regulate AF. I haven't actually taken any since I got it as I then read it can mess up AF if you are regular. I'm just taking omega 3 and 7 seas pre-conception tablets
Xoxo

Wonder should I stop taking it? Its soo hard to know what to do isn't it lol. Yes ive been taking seven seas since October! xx

Ahhh there we go there’s AF. Straight from nothing to omg my insides just fell out lol.