So Confused

[AngelWolf]

I'm Asuan, it's a pleasure to meet everyone. I'm quite confused at my body.

My partner and I have been TTC for 5 years now, it's ended in a lot of heart break and miscarriages. I got healthier and lost around 90 kilo and 10 dress sizes.

The last 2 years my period has been like clock work, even when sick so we arrive on the 24th of November and my period doesn't show, or it does(?) but only when I wipe and i had light cramping that day but nothing since. So I put a pad on and the next day no blood on the pad and no blood when I wipe. That night my partner and I do the deed and there is a little blood when I wipe and there has been nothing since.

I don't know if I'm crazy or if I should give in and test. I haven't told the hubby that I've more or less missed(?) my period yet.

Help?

Could have been implantation bleeding! Try a test tonorrow morning and if it's negative, try again in a few days unless you get your period. Good luck!

I'd love to test, but I've none on hand and payday is 9 days away.

You can get very cheap ones from Amazon? Or call your doctor and tell them your period is a week late? They will probably offer you a test

I do not have a doctor right now as I do not have insurance, that would be costly. Amazon would be wonderful but again there is that money issue... however normally money is not an issue but I was sick a couple of weeks back and had taken a few days off work.

It's sounds like you're not in the uk? Are there any women's clinics that you don't have to be insured for? Or a sexual health clinic will often pregnancy test for you?

Is it an option to tell your partner and ask them to pay for a test?

I hope you get the result you want

No, I am not. But I adore the UK and have many friends from there.
I live in a smaller town so we do not have any clinics near by, I wish we do though. My partner and I have a joint account so that would not work, I am waiting the 8 days till we get paid then i will be buying a test.

Still no sign of any bleeding, just lots of headaches, dizziness and me being tired 3 hours after waking up.

Ah sorry, I just assumed you were in the UK. Good luck to you

Oh, no worries. I got my hands on one of the cheap tests and it was negative. I still show no signs of a period coming. I'm like clock work so this is really confusing and nerve racking.