So we are on cycle 11 of ttc baby number 4 and every month that af shows up im losing hope. It didnt feel this hard to conceive my other 3 lol. Well my first 2 kids i didnt even try but it took us 6 months with our 3rd. I don't want to give up but I'm gutted every time AF arrives. Docs have said If I haven't fallen by the end of January (it will have been 1yr of trying) then go to them and they will do tests. Sorry for the rant ladies xx