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Ttc number 4 and losing hope

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sazzle3 · 28/11/2017 09:26

So we are on cycle 11 of ttc baby number 4 and every month that af shows up im losing hope. It didnt feel this hard to conceive my other 3 lol. Well my first 2 kids i didnt even try but it took us 6 months with our 3rd. I don't want to give up but I'm gutted every time AF arrives. Docs have said If I haven't fallen by the end of January (it will have been 1yr of trying) then go to them and they will do tests. Sorry for the rant ladies xx

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HoneyCake86 · 28/11/2017 09:34

Don’t you dare be sorry for your feelings 💕 regardless of the amount of children you already have, the change from concieving easily to taking a long exhausting journey is undoubtably worrying for you. Just try your best not to over-think, its been shown plenty that stress can have an effect- the people out there who have fallen pregnant when they have put ttc on the back burner.
Sounds like you have a supportive doctor too, which is a positive thing xx

LookingAtTheStars89 · 28/11/2017 09:38

Hi! I'm ttc number 4, I got pregnant the first try with my first three and then cycle 2 with what would have been my 4th but lost the baby at the end of August and since then, nothing.

I've been tracking, attempting to track my ovulating this month with some of those clear blue ovulation sticks but haven't managed to get a static face (lh surge) and I'm on cd19 :-( so bit even sure if I've ovulated or am going to ovulate this month.

Sorry you are in the boat your in. It is really frustrating when you've fallen quickly three times before and then seem to hit a wall! I know I'm lucky to have the three I've got but there seems to be an empty space without a 4th

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sazzle3 · 28/11/2017 11:47

Thank ladies xx

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