DTD— too much effort?

[Gem173]

Does anyone feel like DTD is too much effort? These days I really can’t be arsed and I feel guilty cause I know the OH is geared up and ready. We are trying for a baby and I want it badly but sometimes having sex feels like a chore and I don’t want it to feel this way :/

Although some people don't recommend it, DH and I really focused our efforts on my fertile week (we don't naturally do it several times a week so could potentially have missed the most fertile days). This also then coincided with the time when I am most, erm, enthusiastic. I am not sure how many months we could have sustained it though! (Were lucky to get pregnant quickly).