Anyone else feeling really fed up?!

[Jade123f]

Thought I had symptoms this month but it's just BFN after BFN!! Anyone else feeling like this? AF is due today/tomorrow, no sign of it yet but BFN this morning. Feel really sad xx

In exactly the same boat Jade! It is so frustrating! If it hasn't worked why can't AF just come so you can move on!

I had a chemical last month and was 5days late so now Ovia thinks my cycles are longer so isn't saying I am not late. Super confusing so been testing anyway and getting BFNs! When will I learn?!

Hope you get an answer soon too!

Aw sorry to hear that PinkJammie!!! I hope you're ok! It is so frustrating! I hate the 2ww for it to be followed with a BFN!! Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant 'by accident' and I'm struggling! I think the more you think and worry about it the harder it is!! When is your AF due?xx

Well I would say I am 2 days late. Ovia says AF is due Saturday. Either way I guess I would be getting BFPs on a FRER by now (done a few- ha!) so it's prob not worked. Are you working on the same assumption for yourself? It's rubbish!

I am going for my ovary ultrasound scan next week as we've been trying a year so in a way want to know where we are for that too. Feel crap as a few people said I would be v fertile the month after the chemical and a lot of people catch the following cycle. But doesn't seem to be that way :(

Agree on the babies being everywhere. Happy for others but can't help but feel
Gutted it isn't us. Fingers crossed for some good news soon!

Have you been doing FRERs? I feel like I am wasting them but then doing other tests seems pointless as I know I won't trust the results. Need to be patient which is not easy! X

Yep, definitely feeling fed up over here! After being pregnant twice before both from a missed pill, I though actually ttc without birth control would be fairly easy. 10 months down the line and still nothing. I’m having a 21 day progesterone test tomorrow to check I’m actually ovulating. I don’t even buy pregnancy tests anymore because seeing constant bfp’s is so disheartening :(

PinkJammie I am due tomorrow but got another BFN on a FRER this morning which prompted me to have a moan in this chat! I have also done a few this month, all negatives! I was adament I had symptoms this month but now I am doubting it as I am sure it would have shown up now. I now think AF must be on her way!

I hope everything goes ok at your ovary scan next week!

I know, my sister-in-law got pregnant by accident and when my partner told me I broke down in tears, not because I am not happy for her, but it is just so hard when you are trying yourself and always getting BFN's! Hopefully it will be our turn soon!!!

We do need to be patient, and maybe try not to test! I think that is what I am going to try next month, I am banning myself from buying them! xx

Lilypad15 I think the more we stress about it the harder it is to become pregnant! I know what you mean about the negatives its horrible. Let us know how your test goes xx

So I've just done a pink dye cheap test which was negative of course! Meh! Def a good plan on not buying tests- being late should be sign enough! I had sore nips so was convinced but ho hum- back to the drawing board!

Thank you re scan. Just want to move forward and know where we stand really.

Lilypad those tests aren't an exact science unless your cycle is 28 days. I had one last month and was told it wasn't high enough and then had a chemical a few weeks later so must have ovulated- but have a slightly longer cycle so later than they said. They are part of the story but not the whole one. Fingers crossed you get a high reading though of course! :) x

Yes! So fed up! I'm in the TWW at the moment and don't even know if I have ovulated👎🏻 so I don't think I'm in with a chance this month. Friends of ours have just announced their pregnancy and while I am so so happy for them it's hard not to feel completely gutted! We have been trying for over a year now although for the first few months we had the "just see what happens" attitude but the craziness soon got me! Now starting to worry why it hasn't happened yet 😔 xx

Can I join? Just realised I am out for month number 6. I get menstrual migraines from progesterone levels crashing so I know I'm out as soon as the migraine arrives.

Was trying so hard to be zen about it (because everyone tells me stress is bad if you are trying to conceive) but I just feel so sad. All my tests are fine but can't seem to catch a bean.

Plus I get to have a headache and be pre-menstrual at the same time as realising I'm not pregnant! Awesome combo.

Fingers crossed your BFNs turn to BFPs.

Aw PinkJammie! I'm trying not to do another one now. Due on tomorrow so I will try wait and see what happens. Really fed up though I feel like I've got my hopes up and thought I had all these symptoms but I just get BFNs. Maybe there's still a chance for both of us this month maybe it's just not showing up yet? Let's try think positive.

Bambino90 we were the same. We said we will see what happens and now we both want it so bad! Xx