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5 days late, negative tests

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outofmymind2 · 07/09/2017 18:51

Anyone had this and turned out to be pregnant? I'm so confused.
I feel just like I did before I got my bfp with my son a few years ago, if not worse tbh.
I don't get af symptoms at all really except cramps for the day before I come on.
I got a clear blue positive at one day late but now thinking it was an evap.
I've just done an Asda pink test and it's completely negative.
I'm literally baffled.

Am I out or is this rare but happens? Help 😧

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 12:50

I had bad cramps earlier I thought I had come on... went to toilet and nothing! hang in there! xxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 13:10

Been at hospital all morning with my DS (pre assessment) and no time for loo but convinced I'd come on - just got back and it's just loads of cm Blush gross 😂 Xxx

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RandomUsernameHere · 19/09/2017 15:12

Hope your DS is ok xxx

abby25 · 19/09/2017 15:18

awww how did it go?! haha told you lol I'm pretty sure your going to get a bfp soon! your having a lot of symptoms! xxxx

Unibob · 19/09/2017 17:45

I am 11 days late but Had 4 bfn. Normal extremely regular and have never miss a period unless I was pregnant.
I have been trying for years for my 4th

This is driving me mad

abby25 · 19/09/2017 18:17

ah come join us crazy lady's!!! we are all late with bfn's! I'm 16 days late today and negative tests so reckon I ovulated late this month! xxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 18:20

Thankyou random!
His surgery is Friday so I'm terrified but he'll be okay. Just mummy worrying!

abby you're only a day behind me! I'm having really weird symptoms the last few days, SO much cm (especially today!) and really bad cramps behind my left hip bone.

bob could it be stress or anything else? I hope you all get your BFPs soon💕

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abby25 · 19/09/2017 19:37

I'm not having that much cm that's why I think I'm not pregnant! and cramps I'm getting are just like period pains! let me know how doctors go tomorrow! :) xxxxx

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outofmymind2 · 19/09/2017 21:04

I will do!

I just wish I knew what was happening! My DP is so frustrated because he wants to know! Xxx

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abby25 · 20/09/2017 04:35

hopefully they will give you a blood test and not throb you off... are you doing another test this morning? xxdx

abby25 · 20/09/2017 12:02

how did the doctors go? xxxx

Jadime23 · 20/09/2017 12:31

Hi ladies, is it okay if i jump on here? I am only a couple of days late but could do with somewhere to wait whilst playing the waiting game. I have been getting big fat negatives but i just feel like something is different. It is driving me insane! X

abby25 · 20/09/2017 13:11

hi yea you can join us crazy lady's lol I'm 17 days late today I think I haven't tested since 12 days late but convinced it will be another negative! don't think I'm pregnant think I just didn't ovulate this month or maybe was really late at ovulating! are you having many symptoms? xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 20/09/2017 14:15

Sorry guys had a hectic day. Had to cancel doctors as my DS wasn't feeling well enough for school today! I'll try get in tomorrow.

Hey jadime! welcome!
18 days late here. I'm absolutely exhausted the last couple days I can't cope 😂

How're you both feeling xxx

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abby25 · 20/09/2017 14:29

awww hope he's ok! you done anymore tests? I'm feeling ok just a few cramps here and there that is it... you? xxxx

abby25 · 20/09/2017 14:30

I'm doing another test tonight even though I know it's going to be negative but then it will help me get it out my mind haha xxxx

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outofmymind2 · 20/09/2017 15:12

Had a negative yesterday.
I'm just losing my mind lmao.

My DS keeps saying there's a baby in my tummy and it's making me very Hmm

He's obviously not been told anything! Yesterday in Asda he said 'we need to get the baby a coat' closely followed by 'can the baby come in the bath with me?'
I keep saying there's no baby but he's adamant.
Little oddball😂 Xxx

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abby25 · 20/09/2017 16:27

haha!!!! ah it's so horrible not knowing for sure! I had a dream last night that I got a positive... I'm losing my marbles! I'm pretty sure I'm not but then my OH keeps saying he thinks I am... all because his friends gfs didn't find out till 20 days late and 4 weeks late :/ xxx

abby25 · 20/09/2017 16:30

i might buy somr ov tests just to check as if im ovulating then i must have missed a cycle for some strange reason... my cervix has opened up a bit since yesterday so either af or I'm about to ovulate ... my body's so fucked up and I don't know why lol xxx

Lolababy00 · 20/09/2017 18:16

Hi hope everyone ok ... I had another negative ... af is really messing me around ..

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outofmymind2 · 20/09/2017 18:31

I had the same thought about OV sticks too! & I keep having positive dreams (so does my OH hahaha)
Your boyfriend is giving me hope too hah!
I can't check my cervix due to immensely long acrylics lmao xxx

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abby25 · 20/09/2017 18:52

I've had two dreams now lol and yea I try not to listen to him he's just getting my hopes up ! lol and hahahahah!!!!!! yea best not trying to reach it with them 😂😂 doing a test Friday morning even though I know it's going to be negative but then hopefully i can sink it into my head and I won't be having these dreams haha xxx

abby25 · 20/09/2017 19:57

cramps are quite bad tonight! think af might be coming xxx

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outofmymind2 · 20/09/2017 20:37

I think you should keep pestering the doctors! Xxx

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