Conception not happening

[Mamma211009]

First time here bear with me lol ... i need to get this off my chest ...Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, i have a child from previous relationship. About three and a half years ago me and my boyfriend decided we wanted a child together, i got coil removed and nothing last year we got checked and came back that his sperm wasnt moving as much as it should ... what im wondering is does this mean it will never happen ... its getting me down my friends an people i work with are all having babies with their other halfs .. we both love my son with all our hearts but id love to have another and for my boyfriend to be a dad hes soo great with my son. If anyone could help id be so grateful xx

Did the doctor make any recommendations to improve the quality of his sperm? Would you consider IUI or IVF?

Not really just make sure he eats healthy and looks after himself. My boyfriend doesnt talk about it really he just says hes faulty and closes up .

If he's not willing to have dialogue in a totally non-judgemental way and look at options of improving his swimmers (high dose vit C, proxeed, loose boxers, etc...). Then it sounds like you don't have many options but to keep trying naturally. It may happen...

I've found ttc long term is really hard on my relationship and we don't even know who the issue is with (we get his SA result at our next appointment in Sept). Not sure how we will deal with it... but we try to keep the dialogue down. If he shuts down it seems as though he's in denial and not ready to face the truth...

We had similar issues - ended up having icsi with ivf and conceived a son first time.