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Omg is this a BFP?

22 replies

NickMyLipple · 08/08/2017 18:40

First ever pregnancy test...!

Omg is this a BFP?
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Eminybob · 08/08/2017 18:41

Congratulations!

blueskyinmarch · 08/08/2017 18:41

That is as positive as positive can be! Congratulations. You are having a baby!

Eminybob · 08/08/2017 18:41

Sorry, yes it is a BFP to answer your question!

SweepTheHalls · 08/08/2017 18:42

Depends if the instructions say you are looking for 1 or 2 lines in the text window! it varies from test to test 😊

NickMyLipple · 08/08/2017 18:42

Fuck fuck fuck!!! We planned this but even so!!! Fuck!!!

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Mrscropley · 08/08/2017 18:42

Yep you are def up the duff op. .

talonofthehawk · 08/08/2017 18:42

Very common reaction! It was mine too!

MumBod · 08/08/2017 18:42

Awwww.

Lucky thing. Congrats Flowers

NickMyLipple · 08/08/2017 18:45

Ahhhhhh! What do I do?!?!?!?! Aggghhh!!!

This is crazy - first month off contraception for me, and dtd once about 3 days before what I thought would be my ovulation day.... this is actually insane.

Never in a million years expected it to happen so soon.

I've only just started a new job- will that mean I won't get maternity pay?!?!

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BiscayTrafalgarFitzroy · 08/08/2017 18:49

Congrats OP! Re your job - Depends on what's in your contract and how reasonable your employer is.

IntelligentPutty · 08/08/2017 19:06

Congratulations!!
Scary times but sooo worth it. ;)
My sil had similar just started job and she got statutory maternity pay only.
So u may find that's all u will get.

NoWordForFluffy · 08/08/2017 19:27

Congratulations!

Re mat pay: when was your last period (date) and what date did you start your job? Did you have a job before?

Opensesame1 · 08/08/2017 19:30

Congratulations!! Defs a positive!

pocketfullofsunshine · 08/08/2017 19:46

Congrats! Defo positive.
If you're in england you can get statutory maternity pay from government instead. I had to get that as i didnt know i was pregnant when i started my job. Was only there 17 weeks haha x

NickMyLipple · 08/08/2017 21:51

I am in England. Started job officially on 31st July but have a lot of hours outstanding for consultancy work I was doing for them before then since about May. I didn't have a contract for this.

Last period was 9th July.

I'm annoyed about the SMP thing - I'll be losing out on about £5k for the 6 weeks :(

I've been reading about due dates and changing things around on your MATB1 form so hopefully by then things might have changed slightly and I might (on paper) be able to get the midwife to change the EDD by 2 weeks!

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NoWordForFluffy · 09/08/2017 05:27

As long as you were pregnant 1 week before you started, you'll get SMP. Your dates work for this right now. And you shouldn't be moved forwards more than 1 week at the dating scan. You should be fine!

NickMyLipple · 09/08/2017 05:56

Is 'pregant' counted as the day you conceive? That was 22nd July, which does work.

I tried the calculator on the government website which seems to say that I needed to be employed before 15th July :/

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eviethehamster · 09/08/2017 06:01

Congratulations OP!

You are technically pregnant from the first day of your last period so sounds like you qualify for SMP Smile

LapinR0se · 09/08/2017 06:01

'Pregnant' is the first day of your last period.

NickMyLipple · 09/08/2017 06:06

9th July! Why would the SMP calculator online say otherwise?!

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Oysterbabe · 09/08/2017 07:08

Your MATB1 date will be based on your dating scan and no your midwife won't change it, she'll use the correct date.

NoWordForFluffy · 09/08/2017 09:23

Arghhh. I got it wrong. Posting too early in the day.

No, you won't get SMP as you will have to have started your job on 2nd July.

Apologies for duff info. 😳

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