Little confused

[Sazwest]

I'm hoping someone can help me since I've been TTC since end of January and most of my cycles have been 31 days ( af might have arrived a day early twice since ttc and also 3 days late once at the start of ttc ) but last month my cycle was only 26 days ( af was due 23rd June and it showed up on 17th June) I have never had AF arrive 7 days early ever. Which has confused me coz now I don't know when af will arrive would it be 26 days again which means it's due today or would it be due 31 days which is 18th July.

I've been feeling sick on and off since Monday night.

I'm 9dpo today If af is due 18th July xx

It all depends on when/if you ovulated. Maybe last month you ovulated early or maybe not at all? Although if you've managed to keep going on the relaxed approach and don't know for definite when and whether you've ovulated you'll just have to wait and see...there's nothing we can do to know/tell you!

I can sympathise on out of sync cycles though. I'm cd17 and still waiting for a positive opk- very frustrating! It suggests I'm set to ovulate cd 19 or 20, when most of the last 5 cycles have been cd 16 or 17. I was beginning to enjoy these slightly shorter cycles 😜

I was definitely ovulated last month as got a static smiley, positive opk and the ewcm and from the amount of ewcm I got this month and the pains I deffo ovulated this month also xx

OPKs are only an indication that ovulation is likely to occur. There's no way of knowing (apart from via scans at the time etc) 100% that you did, although it does sound likely.

Just a waiting game now!

Guess it's just a waiting game I will no doubt test 16th or 17th coz I'm impatient lol.

I had a look and If implantation was to occur then it would be today (9dpo) .

I'm hoping my relaxed approach might work lol. Doing no opks or anything was hard. But from the amount of ewcm I had and the ovulation cramps/pains I know I ovulated xx

saz I can imagine it's so frustrating but only a few more days until your out of limbo and can test in a few less if you decide too.

Good luck I hope you get a positive after your cycle messing you around and the relaxed approach has helped.

Also you could test today going from your first date if you've been feeling off? Or try to hold out x x

Yeh I'm Gonna grab one and do it in the morning x

Keep us posted x x

I will do if af was to follow like last month and be 26days and was due today it still hasn't arrived and when af arrives it's early hours I.e 3-4am when I go for a wee. I've ordered some 10mui ones off internet will take one as soon as they arrive on Saturday or Monday xx

Hello saz 🤗 I hope your okay!
I would say it would prob be due closer to 31 days if that's your average, but it does depend when you ovulated!? I was told lp usually stays the same each cycle. I don't know how true that is xx

I've got some 10mui tests in the post today so will take one either tomorrow or Sunday. I've been feeling really sicky today and my nipples are so sore xx

How are u @BlueeSpottyTiger xx

Keep us updated.. I'll cross my fingers for you..get your self some frers xx
I'm great thanks, I got a bfp again at 9dpo after my cp and I'm 5 weeks on Sunday 🤗 going to book a early scan for when im around 10weeks as im on holiday from 11+5 to 13+5 so my 12 week scan will be alittle late and i need peice of mind xx

Awww bless ya: I really hope I get my bfp soon it's been 6 months lol xx

Fingers crossed doll! 🤞😘
This bfp was my 5th cycle. Did you ever try the 'concieve plus' i mentioned?? I used it only on the two cycles (3,5) i conceived. That's a 100% sucess rate in my case xx

No but if it don't happen this month I will get some. How do u use it xx

Are u testing tomoro saz any symptoms?

I'm officially into the two week wait! X

I'm gonna test either tomorrow or Monday af due Tuesday xx

You just use it like normal lube, but on the day of ovulation i used an old calpol syringe to insert it up me.. it helps with the motility and environment of the sperm xx

Any news @sazwest xx

I haven't tested yet I'm trying to hold out af is due tomorrow. I've got one to take in the morning AF normally arrives early hours always has done and I always spot 3-4 days before af arrives fully and I've had nothing at all just have very sore boobs and sore nipples to the point I don't want to go out coz it means wearing a bra. Oh and I have been feeling sick the last few days x x

I've had no signs that af is gonna be arriving and I normally have had by now like the spotting for 3-4 day and I've nothing at all I had some cramping around 9dpo which last for about 10 minutes x

Ooh fingers tightly crossed for you sazwest

Thank you xx

Did you test today @sazwest

Yep then af arrived 😢 xx