Cant make up my mind about another? What decided it for you?

[Donbean]

Just curious.

How many have you got so far?
We weren't sure after ds but in the end we went for another for his benefit rather than ours. Of course now we can't imagine life with just the one.

Ive got one BUT he is and has been VERY VERY hard work from the get go.
Not sure i can put myself through that again.
Im 37 this year so got to hurry up and decide.

Im going through the same dilemma as you donbean ... and am roughly the same age! Its such a hard decision but I keep going over in my mind that its not fair on my ds not to have any siblings .... havent done anything about it though!

Same dilemma here too. My ds is 5 in April and I am 30. Every blinking day I think about having a nother one or not.

I m/c last easter, and think now I am a bit closer to trying again.

So god willing, maybe we will.

nature decided for us (oh and too much wine ).

DS2 was "sort" of planned - we'd discussed no.2 and said we'd start trying at "some" point after DS1 started nursery/school........he was still at home when DS2 arrived.

DS3 was never planned at all, DH didn't want anymore, I did but had decided to wait a few years before trying to see if he could be persauded..........I'm now 28 weeks pg