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So confused

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 07:53

So AF is due today and normally arrives early hours of the morning ( has done since I was about 18 and I've always spotted a few days on and off before hand ) I've had nothing at all not even a drop when wiping or anything. I've never ever been late for a period ever in my life ( unless I was pregnant with my last 3) I've been early a few times.
Took a FRER with fmu this morning and BFN.
I'm so confused I don't know what's going on. If I was pregnant shouldn't it be picking it up xx

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minusten · 17/03/2017 09:27

I am in the same boat 2 days late now and I am never late. Got the whitest of white BFN yesterday so don't want to put myself through it today. Will test again tomorrow if af doesn't show.

Really feel for you!

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 12:12

Still a bfn the top is a ic and the bottom is an ovulation stick. I know I'm not ovulating coz my period is due today but the last few days it's picked up something the other day the 2nd line was darker then went faint again the next day x

So confused
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Foggymist · 17/03/2017 12:48

My af is always bang on time too, early morning, the only times it's been late were when I was pregnant with my son (got a faint bfp), this month with a clear bfp and last month I got nothing on a strip test, faint line on FRER and started "af" two hours later, so it was a chemical pregnancy. This could be a possibility, or you might get a bfp tomorrow/later.

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 12:51

I'm gonna hold off and if it doesn't arrive by next week take another xx

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toadierocks · 17/03/2017 14:56

Hi Saz - Sorry you're on such a rollercoster this month. I think unless you're 100% sure of your ovulation day you can be off by a few days so dont give up hope yet BUT you have got to stop testing like a crazy peeps! Step away from ALL the tests and try and relax for a few days and test again on say Monday if AF hasn't arrived. I've been in your shoes and its just so stressful counting down the days from 1dpo but you need to give yourself a break. If Monday AF hasn't arrived then get down to you're local superdrug and get one of there own brand fast response ones. They're super sensitive to 10mlu and reliable and a pink line so less chance of a evap. I cannot recommend them enough. I usually don't show a + until at least 13dpo and even then it's a faint line which will just worry me more so I wait untill I'm officially late, everyone is different. I hope you get the result you want but for now, feet up, put brain into chillout mood and take a load off. Best wishes x

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 14:58

@toadierocks thanks Hun that's my plan exactly put it to the back of my mind till Monday then test again. Just a pain I've never been late before lol xx

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 19:29

Still no AF. What's going on lol x

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gracie8421 · 17/03/2017 19:42

Sorry to jump on ur post but I'm having a bad month with af as well. Af was due to arrive 9/3. On 13/3 started spotting - just enough for a liner. Has now been like this all week. Tiny wee bit of blood during the day and absolutely nothing at night. Never ever had a af like this before. Been ttc since may last year and every month it's been a normal flow. Took a cb digital on 11/3 which was a bfn should I test again?

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 19:47

Yes lovely I would deffo test again as it could be implantation bleeding that your having and not a period x

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gracie8421 · 17/03/2017 19:52

Would implantation bleed last as long tho? First time ttc n have absolutely no idea what to expect x

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 19:54

Yes Hun. I've deffo take another test 2morow morning with fmu. Keep me posted.

I've have never been late ever for my period just early a few times x

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gracie8421 · 17/03/2017 20:11

Will do. Ru for testing again? It's a nightmare it's like your whole life's on a timescale lol x

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Sazwest · 17/03/2017 20:12

@gracie8421 yeh but think I'm gonna leave it till Monday if AF hasn't arrived by then xx

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Sazwest · 18/03/2017 15:56

Well still no sign of AF at all no spotting or anything xxx

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Sazwest · 18/03/2017 15:57

@gracie8421 have u tested again today ? Xx

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gracie8421 · 18/03/2017 16:10

Yup tested again this morning. Bfn. Still spotting tho. Never ever had an af like this before x

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Sazwest · 18/03/2017 16:52

Aww no: I've had nothing at all no spotting or anything there's no blood in sight xx

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gracie8421 · 18/03/2017 19:14

It's strange. I've decided I just don't understand bodies at all. Who would have thought ttc would be so hard xx

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Sazwest · 19/03/2017 08:43

Well I have just been to the loo and still no sign of AF at all no spotting or anything xxx

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gracie8421 · 19/03/2017 16:47

Oh I dunno how u haven't tested yet. I'd be chapping at the bit xx

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Sazwest · 19/03/2017 17:35

Nope I haven't tested today xx

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gracie8421 · 19/03/2017 17:56

I'm now day 6 of this silly spotting. Just wish af would appear n then it would all be over with. Fingers crossed for your bfp xx

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