Hi I'm hoping someone has been in a similar situation as I really don't know where to go.
I have a child who is 6 years old and fell pregnant in 6 months. We have been ttc for a second child for 3 years and I have not had any miscarriages either. We have had all the tests and everything is more than fine with both of us.
Now the only red flag I can see is that since our first child I have been diagnosed with hypothyroidism with high thyroid antibodies. The doctors and specialists do not think this is affecting my fertility as it is under control although secondary infertility has to be caused by something even if we don't know what?!
We are now contemplating IVF but because "nothing" is causing the infertility then why would IVF work better than naturally? I would pay the money for IVF all day long if it could guarantee me a baby, but if I didn't get pregnant then I would feel guilty for throwing all of our money down the drain, which could be spent on the child we have.