SQUARE ONE TO GRADUATES! Come on ladies we're huntin' BFPs!

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I get twitchy at the end lol! So next rollover thread. Roll call?

It looks like a positive mama! You haven't got AF so I would take it that you are officially upduffed!!

Not yet mimi af due today about to do another test to be sure xx

I believe I am 13dpo

Just done two tests with wee from.a cup and both bfn. Both had the ink bleeding across

Test 1

Test 2

Test 2
I feel really fed up with these rubbish Swiss tests and worrying I'm. Not pregnant

Ohh sorry @mama, those tests are stressing you out. Hope you can hold off testing until you go back home ((easier said than done ))and the witch stays away.

7dpo, wokeup with cramps and almost thought that af had visited early but fine now except a lot of creamy cm.

foot have you got a positive opk yet?have you also kept up with lots of dtd? I am enjoying my pineapples and wondering what to do over Easter.

Any plans for Easter ladies?

tee any symptoms yet hun? Nose bleeding or a hot body yet? Really rooting for you.

jam , have you settled in the new home yet. Hope it brings good luck this cycle.

Thinking of you kate , and really hope you haven't given up. It will happen one way or the other.

durez and kiki hope all is progressing well.

Oh how frustrating Mama, when are you homeward bound and can get your hands on a CB??
We're not far apart Mimi, 8or9dpo here. No symptoms to report, no nose bleed or hot bod. AF officially due Tuesday, but I think more likely Wednesday as I ovulated late. Wouldn't test until the Thursday/Friday. AF pretty clockwork so will just wait it out. Have definitely learnt to expect AF over bfp these days!!
Not a lot planned for Easter. We are having our garden done, so just getting out and about for walks and to parks. Currently sat on a bench soaking up some vitamin D while DS has a lolly. Sometimes the simple things are the best things x

I have a clear blue! However took a diff test this evening and it was a bfn. Will wait till Saturday to take the clear blue I think. Not feeling as positive about it now. Thanks for the thoughts though xx

Cd21. Still nothing. It's like some sort of torture... Not coping well. I think it's really the lack of support from gp and just the waiting another year... I just know I'm not going to have a kid.

I've had ov type pain on one side for the last week or so and when I poke around it's quite tender... wondering if it's me trying to ov from the same side as last cycle...

It must feel like forever Kate It must be unbearable to conceive and then lose it and I'm not surprised you're struggling. Get all the emotions out there and don't lose hope. Your body is trying to get back to normal and needs you to be patient. I realise how hard that must be. Stay strong 🌺🌼🌸

Kate, I have to put you straight. You will have a baby, I'd put my house on it! it's just a matter of when. I know how horrible it is to get so close, only to have it snatched away. Sounds like we have both been told we have to wait a year after our last bfp before receiving further help. I thought this would really frustrate me, but the Doctor was completely adamant and totally confident, that despite the losses, the conceptions must be considered successes. Really thought this would be a hard pill to swallow, but we must take comfort that it DID happen. Sadly miscarriages, especially early ones, are so common, and we have just been very unlucky. I'm really hoping for third time lucky at some point this year (please God let it happen this year). Keep your chin up, your body is adjusting hormonally (is that a word?), so perhaps a late ovulation this time round. Focus on getting your body strong. What supplements are you on? Do you take baby aspirin?

Thanks for that Tee. I know I need to get a grip. I just wish someone would come along and say something like, well you'll get pregnant in October - I could wait. At the moment it just feel like never. I don't know how to throw in the towel and I don't know how to be 'ok'. If that makes sense? I know I'm not the only one in this boat... and I am sorry for ranting on! I have tried to take a bit of a back seat this week, but you guys are the only ones who can possibly understand.

CD 22. Still no temp rise, no positive opk. Lots of back pain and some dull crampy pain on the same side as last month, still tender to the touch. Trying to just flow with it.

OMG Kate it's so spooky that you say that!! I have the exact same thoughts!! If someone said it will definitely happen in xxxxxxxx, then I'd be absolutely fine! Even if it was like Jan 2018, I'd COMPLETELY make my peace with the wait. It's just the unknown each month. It's not that we 'have to wait another month', each time, it's coming to terms with what feels like failure when AF shows. I often think, if someone offered me a choice, carry on as we are and hope for a bfp ASAP, or be guaranteed a bfp, but only in 6 months time, I would 100% take the latter. Even now when I'm only a few days away from AF/potential bfp. Funny how the mind wanders x

I feel this way too. Kate/tee u are so right..if only we could know when. Kate at least you know that your body does ovulate, so if it turns out that ovulation is delayed then that is ok. I would add though, if u are feeling very tender to touch I would be called "the useless gp" to request a scan. Keep hassling.. you never know, she may give in. I get quite bad ovulation pain (when it does happen!!) but it's never tender to touch. Could be extra sensitivity there following the cp.

Good luck tee, just few more days to wait.

Cd14 no ovulation yet either! I'm without Dh now for 2 days so hoping it will wait until Late Sunday night or Monday.

Mama, we can't even rely on the damn tests now can we. Grrr feeling your distress.
Hope it's just bad tests and that you will get your bfp result on a cb test when u are back.

Jam, hope your busy in your new rooms

I CANT SLEEP WITH THESE HOT FLASHES!! I just want to feel normal and get my bfp fast. Its 1230am and I'm still awake.

Those positives I got on Tuesday and Wednesday must of either been false or a chemical as it's Saturday and I just did a digital clear blue and it's negative.
Af due two days ago. So will just await her imminent arrival.

Shouldn't of got so excited. :(
This ttc game is no fun at all!

Sending hugs to those who need it xx

Oh no mama! Sorry for bfn. You must feel gutted. Do u feel like AF is coming?
U guess you can only just wait a few more days and see? Are u usually on time?

Sorry Mama x

Well that sucks. Sorry mama... I hate that we all have to go through such shit for this!!

Ladies reading through your messages of support for one another makes me feel so lucky to be part of this. I've been trying since beginning of Feb so it's still quite new....but it feels so stressful. I've been charting this month and it seems very haywire. My AF started 05 March and I didn't ovulate untill it was nearly time for AF to visit again. I'm on day 35 I believe using my app. This is my chart, as I have a slight dip in temp do I take it that AF is to visit once again? I don't even know when to test as I don't know when I'm due now 😣

Ignore that slight dip lee - it means nothing. You are likely due af about two weeks after you ovulated (give or take a couple of days).

Were you taking hormonal bc before feb? That tends to make cycles erratic at the start. It might settle down after awhile...

Hi @physicskate I was on the marina coil before Feb. I'd been on it for the past 14 years with no AF in that time.

Sending hugs to all feeling down with ttc. .l too have lost the plot. We have so much hope only to be disappointed month after month.

@foot , hope you managed to sleep. I can imagine how you must be feeling. Clomid alone made me feel really sick.fx this is the month.

@mama, lm so sorry for what you are going through

Hope you are feeling better @kate and @tee. One day luck will be on our side. I have gone for 2yrs and haven't seen a squinter.

Have a good weekend all. Will be out of town till Monday, so a nice break then back to waiting for a.

@lee, I don't know much about charting but best of luck