Hi everyone
Just after a bit of advise/experience really. Last month in January we started ttc and straight away I stared using opks. Got a pos opk mid Jan and Dtd at right time so the happily entered the tww. All good so far! Anyway around 2 DPO I stared to get sick (a flu type virus that a few family members had) and ended up with raging fever and bed bound for a couple days. I was convinced nothing could have survived in my body with the fever so accepted that we were prob out that month!! Anyways, you guessed it at 11dpo (ish) I got a bfp!! Was delighted! Fast forward a few days and bleeding started so ended up chem pg 
Now I've waited 26 days to ov again and got a super strong pos opk yesterday but also started feeling ill again. And Sod's law it turns into a sore throat, chills, fever , body aches, headache the lot!! I'm so frustrated . We Dtd anyway even though I had to pretty much force myself and I hardly slept. Just feel like it's going to scupper my chances again?has anybody been really ill over conception and come out the other side? I'm probably not as bad as last month but defo still feeling rotten and if we don't get a bfp this month then my dh wants to skip nxt month as doesn't want a Xmas baby xx