Hi I'm currently single and pregnant with baby number 4 I do not want anymore kids after this 1 and would like to be sterilised who do I talk to about getting this done as I've spoke to doctor and midwife and they just keep saying I need to talk to the other 1 so I'm getting frustrated..... also have read that this can lead to loads of complications and not always successful? Anybody had this done? I'm 28 if that makes a difference