#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx

[Hippychic79]

So we've maxed out our first thread, the positivity is building up nicely and we're joyfully moving on to a brand new thread...

This thread is for anyone TTC and is bursting with positivity, love and support as we cruise towards our BFP's.

New rules instead of saying AF due we say BFP due ...
Also you do not have to add your age or what cycle number you're on if you don't want to ...

The ultimate aim is to get everyone to destination BFP ASAP...
however the bus ride may take a little longer for some of us ...
it doesn't matter if you take the scenic route ...
as long you get there.

So plug in your stats and off we go xxx

Dh always makes sure I'm first or it's together. So (embarrassingly) in the name of research, last month when dtd the few days before ovulation I waited until after dh came and then he would quickly get me off, with the thinking that the orgasm would help the swimmers up.

You definitely don't need an orgasm, though it helps. A huge amount of woman can't orgasm during set and I'm sure that doesn't mean no babies for all of them but the extra enjoyment definitely helps

Sorry to ask such a personal questions - in all honesty I was just trying to lighten things up a bit. I think your right charley orgasms definitely inject enjoyment into the journey :) xxx

I think this is the place to overshare about sex lives!

afternoon ladies

giggling away reading all the orgasm chat - i hadn't thought about it much to be fair but by day 7 in a row in FW, my DH was struggling so i told him to just focus on himself and we'd sort me later 😁 i'm such a caring and thoughtful wifey 😂 (had thought of saying that on day 3 but i was enjoying myself a little too much) 👉🏼👌🏼😉

🤞🏼 FX for all due to DTD/BFP in the next couple of days - i won't be on much as iv a busy couple of days lined up so probably sunday evening before i'll get the chance to catch up. we'll probably be in a new thread by then hehe.

my update is crampy and cranky, signs of a typical AF but also BFP i believe. no spotting or anything else. will not say AF is imminent, must stay positive, must not comfort eat, must not drown sorrows in a bottle or 2 of prosecco #PMA #fuckthefuckinghashtags #onlykidding #loveahashtag

✌🏼 & 💕 😘😘

bella your comments always make me smile ... bless your dh for giving you all those lovely orgasms. I suspect that my dp would struggle to deliver that many days in a row. Enjoy your mn free days but please pop by and let us all know when you get your bfp #pma xxx

Hi Bella - enjoy your busy weekend!

I said to OH yesterday I never imagined discussing our sex life and my bodily functions with a bunch of strangers online but it is strangely satisfying plus you are all very lovely strangers!

Ladies in the spirit of positivity we are all going to need this advice VERY soon so read it / bookmark it! (Most is common sense but I still found it interesting!)
www.mumsnet.com/pregnancy/dos-and-donts?utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Daily%20email%20THURSDAY%20230217&utm_content=Daily%20email%20THURSDAY%20230217+CID_603f5c25c1d866ccd3795e0010080c24&utm_source=newsletters&utm_term=Is%20it%20safe%20Pregnancy%20dos%20and%20donts

haha thanks @hippy my posts are literally an outpouring of the nonsense that goes through my head!

well in the last 20mins iv discovered i am a mother... a Godmother 😁 my bestie just asked me to be Godmother to her baby girl 💕

my response was ...

i do solemnly swear to be there to collect her when she has her first illegal drink, to always try talk her mother round to let her get a piercing/tattoo/fast car/convict boyfriend (or girlfriend), to lend her money when her mother is trying to teach her a financial lesson, to do homework for her when she forgets so she doesn't get into trouble, to let her borrow make up before she's officially allowed, to teach her how to be cheeky but get away with it cos she's cute, to act as her responsible friend that she can trust and tell anything to and finally, to always listen, no matter what. i accept my duties as her fairy godmother xxx

Haha Bella that's great news!

Love that response!! Bet that's just what your friend wanted to hear!!

Gags I totally agree! We're all talking about peeing, mucus and cervix. It's good to remember that at the end of the day it's sex... and it's there to be enjoyed! (As well as to make babies obviously) x

I'm doing good today thanks Hippy. My OPK this evening was negative but I had EWCM turn up this evening so think I must be getting close. We've DTD every other day since CD5 just by coincidence so going to try get a fair bit in over the next few days!

Literally been smirking to myself over this orgasm business. Pretty sure I could not manage it every time if it was every day. Sometimes your just not feeling it.

And I got pregnant without an orgasm last time. So definitely can be done ladies!!

moo thanks for the link. Some
Good info on there

Good to know about the underworld bras not being a problem. When I fell pregnant in July. My boobs got bigger quite quickly an I kept wearing my underwired bra as I felt more comfortable. Wasn't sure if I was meant to but figured I'd get a proper maternity one later on. Obviously I never ended up needing to. But I wore underwired until 13 weeks and it seemed fine to me!

Love the response bella and congrats on being a fairy godmother xxx

Thank you for the link moo xxx

anna same here cd13 poas opk x2 today no smiley face just blank circle but lots of ewcm so gonna crack on and dtd tonight and hopefully Saturday too and that'll be all I can do as dp has made plans for Sunday and Monday will be too late I think xxx

Hey up notparticularlypatient I'm 42. TTC #4 (#1 with new partner) my kids are 13, 11, 8.
Still no AF here folks.

Welcome mrsbarnettsbaby, when are you due to test? Congrats on becoming godmother, that's a huge deal! Fingers crossed for bfp over the weekend!

I wonder why still no af mrsb - are you going to test again at the wk end? Xxx

Hey charley yeah definitely good to keep the enjoyment in the sex if we can xxx

hey @mrsb is that cd70 yet? you have the patience of a saint! xx

thanks @hellybelly i'm so excited to get organising the christening, i'm on cake duty! bang goes the slimming world that day! 👶🏼 ⛪️ 🎂

Ugh I have proper AF type back pain and stomach cramps! I've never felt ovulation before! Just going to have to smile through it to dtd haha!

That's how I'm feeling Charley but 6 days to go until af, wish I didn't read too much into every possible symptom, this 2ww is really getting me down!

Charley I swear we are the same person! Not only are we OV at the same time, but I've had AF type cramps and backache all day too!

Cd72 today. Tested last weekend so won't test now til a week on Saturday. Obv still keep dtd so every chance for a bfp!

Haha too funny! It's now about an hour since dtd and I have pains in the right of my stomach! I'm guessing it's definitely ovulation and I'm officially done with dtd! Although I am seeing 50 shades tomorrow night so you never know 😉 hahaha!!!

Morning ladies. POAS this morning to clarify the light early bleed I've had this week was in fact af and not implantation.
So here are my new stats

Age 25
Cycle 3 since mc (been trying nearly 5 years)
Cycle day 5
Bfp due 19th March (unless the witch decides to show early again)
Me and hubby have decided that were are going to give the smep plan a go this month!! He seems to think he's up to it

Anyone else due to POAS this weekend??