Thank you all for your kindness 
Blissful I'm hopeful that I'll be able to get pregnant and carry to term at some point it's just seeming like it's all getting more complex!
Fx that it's just too early to see anything on that IC!
Flora so sorry AF arrived, well done for having a cry and picking yourself up again, think getting it all out can help avoid a few days of feeling gloomy.. I imagine referral to specialist eventually although I hold out v little hope as generally I am complex, bewildering and they are unable to fix any of my problems so far!
pj's think a childish strop is totally normal every once in a while, go with it and hope it leaves soon! FX for you, glad you have much distraction, makes it go so much faster!
eva stroke wise I'm already on anti-clotting injections twice a day and have been for over 2 and a half years now, they're at the dose they would give if I had a clot to dissolve it, so that gives me some protection. I have an autoimmune condition where my body attacks (among other things) the outer coating of my blood cells which makes them sticky. It's the same condition that gives me a much higher risk in pregnancy. I have a referral for further testing at specialist neuro hospital. After some further googling it appears 90% of those with "dysfunctional uterine bleeding" aren't ovulating so it may (hopefully) be as simple as something like clomid to get me ovulating. Limited hormone wise because of my increased risk of clots just to complicate things 
basset good start to the symptom spotting
fx for you