Caught with my first child pretty quickly but didn't find out till I was about 17 weeks gone, now we're trying for our second child 3 and a half years later and I'm getting really down about it as we have been trying for almost 8 months, it's such a blow each month when my period comes along it really gets to me which I know does not help when trying for a baby I just can't help but get upset about it😩😩