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Any larger ladies TTC?

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NickMyLipple · 31/12/2016 15:42

In a bit of a dilemma really. I'm morbidly obese and wear size 24-26 in clothes. Despite my size I do try to keep healthy - I eat much better now than I did a few years ago, and we're relatively active as a couple (Sunday walks for 8 miles, climbed mt Snowdon earlier in the year etc). I definitely have an unhealthy relationship with food and I do still eat too much crap too often, but I started slimming world a few months ago and lost 3 stone but fell off the wagon about 5 months in. I plan to start again in the new year and have planned meals for the first few weeks to get me off to a good start.

We are thinking of TTC in 2017. I have an implant at the moment which is due for removal in July but I've been getting spotting for the last 5 months so essentially I can have it out whenever. Once it's removed I don't intend on taking any other contraception.

I was wondering if any of you are bigger girls? What challenges lay ahead? I know my fertility may be effected by my size but equally it may not be! Should I wait until I am a much healthier size? That might be years - I find it so hard to be motivated. I desperately want to be a mother but even that doesn't motivate me enough to lose weight! I didn't come here to be judged by anyone, though I am happy to hear about why it might be dangerous for me or the baby to TTC.

OP posts:
NickMyLipple · 14/01/2017 06:39

I'm a HCP myself, so I regularly think about that perspective, cupoftea! It was very challenging when I broke my leg in the summer and had to be rescued by paramedics from a very muddy pathway!

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SpookyPotato · 14/01/2017 07:04

Hi OP, I'm a size 18/18 stone and got pregnant on the first try, pregnancy has been great. I have had extra tests like diabetes and growth scans but nothing much else. Not sure about birth as I am having a section (my request). The only negative I would say is I feel 'heavier' this time (I was slim for my first pregnancy) and my pelvis has hurt more and had less energy. Everyone has treated me with respect which has been reassuring. I think it's just so common now, looking around the antenatal waiting room it's rare to see someone under a size 16.
But if you can I would try and lose some while you TTC, it all helps! Good luck Smile

CupofTeaTime · 14/01/2017 07:12

OP I'm the same size as you and have had two DC now, both delivered by c section due to GD. Epidural and spinals were administered with no issues. Good luck Flowers

Happ7Bunny · 16/03/2018 19:15

This is a really interesting topic that I can really relate to. Any ladies out there still ttc and 17st 7?

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