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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

December Bus #2

591 replies

MrsG280516 · 12/12/2016 12:48

Hi everyone, we've maxed out the other thread so I've set up a new one. I really hope this one is just as lucky as the other!!

Updated list:

Pebble82 07/12
DichotoMous 09/12
RoseValleyRambles 09/12
lynseyc83 10/12
ThirdThoughts 10/12
Callie85 11/12
Kskifred 11/12
12345Claire 12/12
StephyJane 14/12
Carlotta82248 15/12
Jellybabie3 15/12
DixieChick1991 16/12
Ttcnovice 16/12
Bertiebotts 17/12
charley2016 17/12
Bows85 18/12
HellsBellsK 20/12
Tinkerbell2319 20/12
JeNeBaguetteRien 21/12
Bluesdetoi 22/12
Miwelaisjacydo 22/12
88claire 24/12
Minime2016 25/12
MrsBarnettsBaby 25/12
Missmagpie 27/12
MrsCummings 28/12
Motherhippy16 28/12
Usernamegone 28/12
Janipop 29/12
Binkybunny 29/12
Lovechild2016 30/12
Powerpuffer 31/12
0hb0llocks 31/12
MotherOfUnicorns 31/12
Londonexhile 01/01
Harrypotternerd
Isthisusernamefree
DrRBannerx
Gracie17
voxnihili
Fourbyfour
Flutterby89
Crusading
Kirsty8333

Grads:
MrsG
FlaminFlamingo99
Oggy88 (BFP 9/12)
Writerwannabe83

I think the lovely pebble82 is going to kindly take over updating the list Smile GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!

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Mummyme87 · 18/12/2016 19:24

Congrats Ash and Oky. That line is definitely a positive!!!

So I've come home from the in laws and did a cheap OPK.. line isn't as dark as the control line but definitely darker than my negatives. I am sure I must be about to ovulate as every time I pee in a cup to do an OPK I see clumps of (sorry far TMI) EWCM.

topanga84 · 18/12/2016 19:34

Hi all been TC for nearly two years now ... mc in May. I have a 12 yo DS so there will be a big gap !!! Hoping this is my month ...can I be put down for the 31st please xx
Baby dust to all! X

Mummyme87 · 18/12/2016 19:51

Topanga - good luck, I'm due AF 32st also!!

FlaminFlamingo99 · 18/12/2016 20:11

Oh Hippychick I'm sorry you are finding it so hard right now. Its so disheartening when you start TTC and it's so exciting and you expect to fall pg within a few months, then nothing happens and you Google it and realise it's not usual to take 6-12 months to conceive. Then every cycle you can't help but get your hopes up and then AF arrives and you're crushed. Most of us here have experienced that, it's natural to get excited and optimistic, then you learn to be realistic and accept you will be to be patient and that it might take a bit longer than you would like, but the chances are very very high that it will happen one day - and then you will be caught in the whirlwind of pregnancy and it will go so quickly and before you know it you'll have your baby in you arms! Just take a deep breath and take each day at a time. You will get there, and each day is bringing you closer to your baby. As others on this thread have said it's all about Positive Mental Attitude Xmas Smile

Congratulations OkyDoke and Ash!!!

So many BFPs on this bus!!

BertieBotts · 18/12/2016 20:32

I think DH thinks I'm pregnant, he's been all clingy today Grin

powerpuffer · 18/12/2016 20:35

hippychick I completely understand your frustration. I'm the same each month. I prefer to POAS from ridiculously early rather than wait for AF but I think both ways are just horrible. We are all in this together and understand how horrible the journey can be. But soon, it will be so so worth it. I'm sure of it.

I've still got this horrible illness but have managed to DTD Weds, Thurs, Sat and today (Sunday). Based on past cycles I should ovulate today but my OPKs are not quite positive yet so it might be tomorrow for me I guess, or I've not POAS at quite the right time yesterday/today. Ho hum. Will try and get some more action in over the next couple of days - to make the TWW seem shorter, if nothing else. AF due on New Years Eve.

minime2016 · 18/12/2016 20:40

BertieBotts maybe he knows something you don't. WinkMine has just started having indigestion, told him he might be having symptoms for me Grin

BertieBotts · 18/12/2016 21:30

He had symptoms for me when I was pregnant back in April. He was resolutely unexcited last time so I expected the same again. I have just eaten a second dinner and am still hungry though Blush so perhaps he has a point.

I am seriously tempted to run to the shop in the morning and grab a test to do when DS leaves for school. I don't have to leave for work until 10.30/11ish.

BertieBotts · 18/12/2016 21:31

I did, um, also fish Friday's test out of the bin and stare at it but absolutely nothing there.

Tinkerbell2319 · 18/12/2016 22:10

Just catching up, that's actually really lovely advice thanks flaming I'm determined to hang on a few more days

And congrats Ash and oky Grin

Hippychic79 · 18/12/2016 22:14

Thank you flaming and power for your kind words and moral support xxxxxx
I really love you ladies xxx

AshAlee1989 · 18/12/2016 22:18

Thank you for the congratulations guys! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for everyone else Smile

bluebell17 · 18/12/2016 22:28

Congrats oky and ash! Yay for more BFPs! No news from me yet.

powerpuffer · 18/12/2016 23:55

hippychick Its funny how us strangers on the net, drawn together from being in similar situations, can bond despite knowing nothing about each other aside from the most intimate details of their cervical mucus and sex life Grin

Mummyme87 · 19/12/2016 07:39

CD14. I got another flashing smiley face today but convinced i ovulated yesterday. I won't be using these CB things again I don't think. Stressing me out 😂

Mummyme87 · 19/12/2016 08:26

I'm obsessed. I did a cheap OPK and it's positive and I'm having back ache and cramps/achey sensations in my groin this morning. I've dtd for 4 consecutive nights.. not sure if I can do another night I'm knackered 😂

88claire · 19/12/2016 08:26

Still no news from me. Multiple BFN but lots of positive OPKsConfused. Not a clue when AF will show or when I ovulated. have made an appointment to see a doctor on Wednesday as I'm convinced my hormones are all over the place!

According to ovia my longest cycle is 42 days so will test on Christmas Eve and if that's negative I'm definitely out.

Congratulations to anyone with a BFP... I dream of that day!

Mummyme87 · 19/12/2016 08:28

Positive OPK.. they do exist!!

December Bus #2
BertieBotts · 19/12/2016 08:31

BFN, not a hint of a squinter. Symptoms seem gone too... I wonder how much it's psychosomatic :(

bluebell17 · 19/12/2016 09:11

Claire sorry to hear of your confusing cycles. Remind me how long you've been TTC for? I hope you get some answers soon.

Bertie Fingers crossed it's not, I'm hoping for a BFP for you. When is AF due?

Mummyme that's a strong positive opk! Good luck!

bluebell17 · 19/12/2016 09:15

I'm still trying to resist testing again. My tests were so faint last week, and came up later than the suggested time on some of them so I'm not convinced. Confused if I count the bleed before out and say it wasn't AF then AF is due between 21st and 27th depending on length of my cycle. My last one was 34 days! So confused.

Tinkerbell2319 · 19/12/2016 09:20

11dpo today and BBT has dipped by 0.4 degrees C... it's not below the cover line but it's the lowest I've had since ov

Does this mean AF is en route? First month temping so not really sure what it means if anything yet :/

BertieBotts · 19/12/2016 09:29

That's a good sign Tinker! Can be known as an "implantation dip".

bluebell I'm not sure! I don't know exactly when I ovulated. I think up until Wednesday the witch is fair game.

Hippychic79 · 19/12/2016 09:40

i agree power - and I'm very grateful for all the supportive comments.
I never thought a bfp would take this long...
i need to go easy on myself though as o/h and i only baby danced once in my fertile window and it was slightly too early. we dtd on day 13 and i got a smiley face on opk on day 15. Like Mummyme - I'm just pleased I'm ovulating as i don't think i was when i first started TTC.
good luck ladies
xxxxxx

Lovechild2016 · 19/12/2016 09:41

Morning everyone. A bit of a roller coaster over the weekend it seems. hippychick, bertie and claire sorry for stressful BFN, I also caved and did a internet cheapie today 8DPO (well I think) which no matter how many different lights or ways I looked at it was negative! Feeling your pain, I'm also cycle 3 and 32 yrs old so trying to keep a lid on anxiety as power is totally right, for the vast majority it WILL happen but it often takes 6-12 months 💐 Big love to you all and hang in there. As for the BFP wow! Amazing news girls: ash and okey so happy for you, hope you are feeling ok and they are sticky beans Smile bluebell I think you are an a example to us all with your patience at what must be such a tricky time. I agree wait as long as you can as only time will give you the answer but I don't know if I could be that restrained, big hugs to you and keeping all crossed for a much darker line when you do test.