After miscarriage. Should I just count my lucky stars and stick with what I've got?

[Anisse]

Have 3 lovely kids, but last one has such a big age gap he will only be 10 when the others leave home. Feel sorry for him
already.

Just had a m/c and dont know if I should try again or leave it as it is?

Sympathy Anisse {{{HUGS}}} It has been a hard week for you

Only you will know what is right for you - we have similar gaps in our three, so can understand where you are coming from. Didn't work out for us to have a #4 because of medical problems that came along at the crucial time. Otherwise, it could be me posting the same as you, some time ago.

Best wishes whatever you decide.

I am in 2nd relationship. Had m/c 2004.
Had dd last July.

Smallest age gap is 12 yeards. That's my dd, dss are 16, and 20 years older than dd. They all ADORE her, and she is never ever short of attention.

They may well all leave home before she is very old at all, but they will still be her brothers.

If you want another one, go for it, I would not be without dd for the world.

HTH

Also none of ours show any sign of leaving home, so don't worry too much on that count.