Thanks SLady. I've got sort of half and half of our friends who have babies, but its only the half that have babies that I seem to always be seeing now that all I can think of is ttc. I also only speak to some of them about it. I dont want everyone knowing our business but in some circumstances things are easier if people know the truth.
Changing - I know this is easier said than done but dont let the fact that you are ttc get in the way of decisions that you would normally have made. My DH hated his job last year but was frightened to move in case we got pregnant. Trouble was, he then got frustrated and down because of his job - and almost resented it when we were not getting pregnant because he was then effectively in a crap job for nothing. That sounds more black and white than it was, but in the end he decided to move (and thankfully he did as we still are not pregnant). Now he is in hie new job he loves it - and is so pleased he made the move.
Obviusly your situation is different and there are financial and other issues to consider. I just think you may find that a new start or change in your job may help you feel more positive which can only be a good thing if it filters through to your ttc life.
Hopefully you'll find the answer that works for you x