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Thread 20 TTC #1 - We. Want. Babies.

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AlexiaB · 20/10/2016 10:06

Hugh enjoys ISW and his love affair with Doreen. He watches out for skittle tits and weepyitis. Mrs Arseholey Fucknut (AF) shows up when you least want her but brings wine and soft cheese as a consolation prize.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind and well meaning but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly don't convince yourself you're pregnant in the tww. That is paramount! It messes with your head and makes you crazy crazier.

We don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts. We want a fanny full of determined Doreen, not unicorn farts and gnome tears with extra sparkle. We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area.

Post your stats and add your dates. A more lovely, supportive group of ladies you couldn't wish to meet. We like it when the grads stick around too. No question is too daft. We have opk experts, temp experts, cervical mucus management teams and symptom spotters extraudinaire!

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LondonJem · 11/11/2016 14:09

thanks girls Flowers

I'm actually alright, been expecting it to come so not surprised at all. Also just had lunch with a friend who told me she's been trying since February with no luck. We had a good old chat about it and I feel like it's helped me get it in perspective.

Don't think DH has called up yet - will chase him! Keep your fx...

AlexiaB · 11/11/2016 14:15

Jem that lunch and chat sounds like it was just what you needed today Flowers Keeping fx!!

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MrsG280516 · 11/11/2016 14:20

Got my fx Jem

CD4 today and it feels like time is going extremely slowly, I just want to get back on with ovulating!!

geeup · 11/11/2016 14:25

Sorry jem that af got you but glad you felt prepared for it and you have a friend in RL to talk too.
Alexia - we DTD last night (again docs orders of EOD) - felt counter intuitive to not do it when I could feel the follicle bursting! Will try again tomorrow am and hopefully Sunday although with male factor, DHs ejaculate will probably have barely any sperms left by then. Worth a try though.
Yes I do appear to have vaguely regular cycles - although they haven't been that regular over past 18 mths. Maybe the vitamin b and/or clomid is helping regulate me after all. It's a good thing and bad thing - with a regular cycle and perfectly timed DTD, it's still not happening so something must be wrong :(. I sometimes worry DHs sperm and my egg just aren't compatible. Roll on end of Nov for our IVF referral! 2 weeks to go...

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 15:00

I'm actually alright, been expecting it to come so not surprised at all.

A better way to be I think. Disappointment is horrible.

Starmist · 11/11/2016 15:23

Kwick loving the positive womble thoughts! Hope your scan went ok? Been keeping my FX for you today.

Inspector sorry about ur results Sad as others have said, hopefully there is something that can be done. At least you have a good batch of eggs.

Hopeful yes, having my scan to check if any fertility issues. I'm sure they can sort your fibroids, try not to worry.

Oh Jem I'm so sorry FlowersFlowersFlowers

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 15:43

Jem - ahhh no way, I don't know why but I thought cycle 11 was going to be the one for you. Try to have a PMA though, you're taking lots of positive steps already xx

LondonJem · 11/11/2016 15:57

Gee the compatible thing has occurred to me too. Maybe they just don't get on Confused not long at all your referral that's exciting.

It's ironic how much better I feel today. The anticipation really is the worst bit for me - combined with all the hormones. Getting my period really does make me feel better Hmm

DH spoke to the receptionist and she said your results are normal no further action required. I was like "what are the numbers I need numbers!" Dozy receptionist couldn't give him them so I've told him to go in person and ask to see them!

Going out for dinner tonight with DH and friends, got flat viewings tomorrow then a hair cut. Determined to feel positive and not let this shit get me down. PMA!!! FlowersFlowersFlowers

geeup · 11/11/2016 16:06

Great PMA jem. Proud of you. Will make a note to book hair cut and something nice for DH and I to do together for day period is due next - 24th Nov as think it's a great idea.
Any news from the scan kwick?

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 16:13

Does anyone know if it's acceptable to ask a Doctor to print all your results off? Jem like you I want all the data not a one-word response.

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 16:17

Just called about my 21 day bloods, which aren't because no AF yet and I'm on the triage list to speak to the duty Dr this afternoon Confused. Maybe it's just my anxiety but it seems excessive... Can't I just make an appointment to see her soon? Ack m

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 16:18

skipper you can always request paper copies of your notes. They are legally yours!

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 17:08

Alice - thanks :) why are your 21 day bloods not 21 day bloods if your period is late? Sorry if I'm misunderstanding something obvious!

bluebird3 · 11/11/2016 17:19

Hi everyone.

Sorry I've been MIA for a few weeks. Just trying not to think about things too much at he minute.

skipper day 21 bloods are misnamed. They should be roughly 7 days before AF, midway between ovulation and AF. They call them day 21 based on a 28 day cycle. If you have 30 day cycles you should book them in on day 23. You have to sort of guess when to book based in expected af arrival.

jem sorry for AF. Glad you are taking it in stride.

I'm cycle day 4 with our first appointment at fertility clinic on Monday. Feeling nervous. Confused

EJ2009 · 11/11/2016 17:39

Dont know whats going on with me. Cd 17 boobs never went sore, temp dipped 2 days ago and rose the day after but plummet again today. Cycle is always 28-30 days so unless im having a long one this month ive had a month off ovulating. Feeling really miserable & hating the unknown. My brief flirt with a pma has gone and ive parked in the will this ever happen camp

EJ2009 · 11/11/2016 17:41

To add though ive had ver mild cramps for about 3 days. I ha ewcm about cd12 briefly then like the mayo looking stuff (tmi i know)

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 17:52

Blue - rrrrrright, I'm so glad you told me this because I ovulated late and am due 21 day bloods next week. I'll rethink my date! WB by the way and all the best for your appointment!

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 17:54

So alice - if your bloods aren't correct this cycle, then whatever the Doctor was going to say may be overshadowed by this fact. Maybe they will just say you need to get it redone next cycle? Let us know how it goes...

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 18:03

Yeah maybe they assume it's day 21 whereas actually it was more like cd17 bloods? Idk until AF turns up. Obviously I've googled what dpo blood pregnancy tests are reliable.... Hmm

kwick · 11/11/2016 18:46

What an arse fcuk jem Flowers I really thought you would get your BFP this cycle!
Did your offer get accepted? I think I may have missed something if you are looking at flats tomorrow Hmm

EJ Flowers hang in there!

Fanks for all well wishes... thought I had updated thread after scan: 2 follicles at 10mm and one other smaller, next scan Tuesday - unless I get a positive LH in the meantime (in which case I have to go in for an earlier scan).

Had a long chat with newish main boss this afternoon making it clear(er) I need a new job with less travel - she seemed very willing to find me something else - just needs the right job. So this is positive - right?

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 19:07

Deffo a positive. Change is good. Less early morning flights can not be a bad thing.

GP appeared to just want to chat about fertility, nothing major to say. Cd21 bloods that turned out to be cd1 bloods apparently count as cd3-5 bloods and were fine. Cd21 bloods, which are not actually Cd21 showed v little progesterone, didn't show ovulation, might be because they were wrong. She said as soon as DH gets his SA done she will refer us to the fertility clinic. :(

As no AF she said to wait a week after AF is due to test!?

sk1pper · 11/11/2016 19:17

Alice - phew! At least she's not getting you to do the bloods again, the referral is good. Don't worry about your 21 days, theyre probably just inaccurate.

Kwick - absolutely positive! :) you are so methodical with everything, I like that. You'll have your bean soon enough xx

AliceScarlett · 11/11/2016 21:05

I think she wants one more go at the 21 day ones. I'll be 19dpo tomorrow and no sign of AF. Will poas, got some asda cheapies.

I've missed you lot. I'll never take a break from MN again!

HepKestrel · 11/11/2016 22:06

Definitely positive development kwick

HepKestrel · 12/11/2016 08:20

In other possible developments, do you remember about 4weeks post eprc, I had a tiny amount of old blood spotting? Well I am 8weeks post eprc, and again have tiny amount. Fx it is AF this time.

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