OK I am driving myself nuts quietly and need some sense talked into me!! I am 41 and me and OH have been trying to conceive for almost 4 years. Had all the tests and classed as unexplained fertility but because of age we wont get help from NHS.. anyways I digress... my cycles are usually between 27 and 31 days so fairly "normal" I bleed for around 3 - 4 days fairly heavily for the first 2 -3 days and then tapering off.. again fairly normal I think. Anyway this month had everything crossed as I do every month and then at lunch time on day 27 AF started but only very light. I bled much lighter than normal but dark brown old blood for about 24 hours and then nothing... then I had a small bleed at about 48 hours but just old brown blood that didn't even require a pad, then again nothing for about another 24 hours, then the same thing.. this has gone on for about 5 days with the odd tiny bleed (just noticeable on tissue paper). On top of this I felt nauseous (badly) on day 28 and 29 but now just the odd wave. I have tingly/itchy nipples on and off which I generally never have except for a day or so before AF is due. I feel spaced out generally and a little bit grotty. I feel like AF is due? Ive taken 3 tests over the last few days and all BFN so it must just be a weird period/month for me. Please someone give me a virtual reality check!!