{creeps out of deep cover... pretends not to have been lurking for weeks}
Hi MrsMcJnr
Your email caught my eye when you first posted it and I have been watching.. waiting to decide whether to share my experience. I wasn't sue it would be helpful... but I can understand you are perhaps getting a little concerned.
First of all - I think it is good news ... but MAYBE not the total good news you, understandably, are after.
What you have experienced happened to me. I panicked - and immediately called a friend of my parents who is a (non fertlity) gynae. He advised me to have swabs taken of my cervix to rule out infection. I reterospect I kind of wish I had waited - another week wouldn't have made any difference - they were clear anyway.
I got the all clear on infection and then started to wonder why I was still getting the discharge. I came to 2 conclusions either it was seriously bad news or I was pg. Having been ttc for almost 2yrs at that point I thought it extremely unlikely. However, on dpo 10 I decided I should rule out pg before terrifying myself silly.
I used an early test (first reponse) and shock (!) came up BFP. This was Saturday.
So this is the good news - however the discharge continued I also had some pains on the left side and called my doc on the Monday .... by that afternoon I was in A&E with a suspected ectopic. The Early Preg Unit was unable to see me that day so I had a night in hospital. The EPU were fantastic and said it it quite common for women to have this kind of discharge for weeks and still go full term. It was way too early to do a meaningful scan (they did one as a it could be useful as a baseline for future scans). They asked me to have blood tests every 2 days to check the HCG was increasing. By Wednesday (so dpo 14) I started to bleed more and the blood test showed I had miscarried.
THIS MAY NOT HAPPEN TO YOU - so please keep positive - and also take very good care of yourself - I sometimes kick myself for not resting more at this time - though the more sane self tells me it wouldn't have made a difference.
I try to remember this was amazingly positve for us - beacuse it is the closest we had (and still have) got to getting pregnant. At least it is a sign we can connect egg to sperm IYSWIM
I really hope this helps rather than worries you, ask me more if you wish,
with love
Sunshine