Loulabelle, sorry about bfn. How did you confirm ov this month? Like someone else said, if it was opk, you might only be 10-11dpo so might just be too early. It's good news that af isn't here.
Oh cookie, sorry about crappy af turning up, although probably better to do it day of wedding than next morning so you can have a good old drinkie!! Would have been rubbish if you had stayed sober and hopeful and then she pitched up the next day. And I spent hours manically googling luteal phase defects as mine were generally 7-10 days. I think I tried b vitamin complex for the short luteal phase, continued Angus and tried inositol (but that was for pcos) and I did get preggers but might have been a coincidence. There is a thread for short luteal phases.
Jjspoon, my periods were shorted and lighter post pill too. Although after the 1st couple they went back to crazy painful and did get a little longer. It took us 6 months to get up the duff.
I had a bit of a freak out day yesterday. We had such a nice couple of days after the scan, enjoying telling people etc. and I felt really chilled out about everything. And then yesterday at work I had some pain in my pelvis (kind of in my cervix) and in my back while I was at work. And I totally freaked out again. I think it feels like it's now public knowledge and we keep getting excited texts from people... So now if something happened we would have to share that news with everyone too. Just a bit overwhelming I guess. And way I looked up some positive pregnancy affirmations last night and feel so much better. They sound a bit hippy but they helped so I'm going to read them every day. And the pain has gone now so I know I was worrying about nothing. There are some nice affirmations online about fertility and conception too if it's anyone's cup of tea. I was doing fertility meditation when I got pregnant because I was starting to stress myself out about the pcos/short luteal phase/8 week cycles. Definitely helped to chill me out.
Anyways, must go to work. Have a nice day ladies xx