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Tee4me · 30/03/2016 16:59

So AF got me this afternoon!! Trying not to get down in the dumps (although I just watched 'one born every minute' on catch-up and sobbed!)
Dusting myself off and hoping for better luck in April! A few stats:
Age-33
TTC-5th cycle
DC-1 DS (3.5 years old)
Anyone else at the start of their cycle and trying something new in the hope of a more successful month?!

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Mimilicious013 · 15/04/2016 08:17

Kkkk parney, that thought once crossed my mind haha.
Suddenly feel cramps like af is coming early ((I'm soo scared))

SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 08:26

radders yes to sexed out! It gets to the point where I'm just getting a bit sick of it! Amazing effort from you both, fx a plucky one got through.

Lightening vagina 😳 something to look forward to!

footprints I stay put and lie down for 5-10 mins but then go for a wee. Every time they ejaculate squillions of the stuff gets up there - hopefully right up by your cervix - so the ones that comes out when you wee were never gonna be part of the party.

How's everyone doing today? I'm inexplicably upbeat today. I've been singing a little African song I was taught at school to myself getting ready for work! DH was like 🤔

SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 08:27

parney lol at missing the pill! It's true sometimes I wonder if getting drunk might help?!

Mimilicious013 · 15/04/2016 09:35

Lol at getting drunk now sucha ,ttc madness 😂. It's nice to know you are in a good mood. Might just be an early symptom Smile

Jod1985 · 15/04/2016 12:52

CD 32 Star
No AF and no BFP. Warning; moody cow today! Think I could actually choke someone. Boobs really sore too.

raddersmrs · 15/04/2016 13:36

CD23Star

Had a cry at work today - emotional!

I feel like I've got period pains - slighting cramping over the Lower abdomen but I'm not due until Tuesday. Really hope it's not an early AF Sad

Footprints1 · 15/04/2016 13:37

CD14

Jod- are yourboobs usually so sore before AF? I got to CD43!! However I did ovulate late too but was still 23dpo, I had AF cramps that last week before AF. No sore boobs or CM and I was a BFN. I'm positive for u! As really think u are going to be a BFP. When are u testing???
Hope you day gets better for u.Thanks

Sucha- yes I was tempted to get on the prosecco tonight. Every time we dtd just as soon as the swimmers are released I do suddenly say in my head.. "go on you swimmers.. Swim for your life" lol!! Feel bad that it takes over my thoughts. Maybe the prosecco will help concentrate on the moment rather than the possible outcome. Smile

Mimi- hope AF stays away

Radders- yes I was worried about Cystis, as I do suffer a bit from that.

Tee- not heard anything from u- hope u are ok??ThanksThanks

Tee4me · 15/04/2016 15:25

CD17Star
Here I am! What a week 😫 Been totally wiped out with what turned out to be flu. It's been horrific. I don't know if I ovulated before this all kicked off (Sunday), or if those pains on Monday were my ovaries trying to release an egg but couldn't. I've barely eaten a thing all week, although I have forced down the odd brazil nut, dried apricot, and chunk of pineapple! Really wanted to DTD after expected OD but was way to sick by then. Haven't been taking my supplements either because I haven't been eating dinner.
Radders/Sucha, amazing how much BDing you managed!! You've definitely given yourself the best chance.
Jod can't believe you're still waiting for an answer!!
Anyone testing at the weekend??

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raddersmrs · 15/04/2016 17:55

Cd22Star

tee sorry to hear you have been so poorly. Sounds awful. Hopefully you're on the mend

I still have mild period like cramps so anxious to see if AF comes tomorrow. I still have CM though so doesn't really make sense

I'm going to test tomorrow and if its negative will wait until Tuesday/Wednesday. Tuesday officially AF due

raddersmrs · 15/04/2016 17:55

Cd23 even!! Star

SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 17:58

Glad to hear she's still not come jod

radders! Why were you crying at work? I hope you're okay. Cramping is normal for PMS and BFP so nothing to hang your hat on sadly.

footprints mentally cheering on the sperm is brilliant. I think a little prosecco can't hurt!

tee you poor thing that sounds awful. Hope you feel better soon.

I seem to have swung 360 from convinced AF coming to being mentally pregnant now. Dangerous as could be in for a big fall next week 😕

SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 18:04

Read this the other day and it helped me mentally. Mother Nature is a difficult creature

http://community.babycenter.com/post/a14447706/pollingabouttpmssymptomssinthoseewithbfppalready

Tee4me · 15/04/2016 18:06

Sometimes having that 'feeling' is the best sign Sucha! What CD are you on? When will you test??
Good luck tomorrow Radders!!
Anyone able to give me a short lesson in CM, what to look out for at what stage?? Only thing I know is that it should turn EW before/during ovulation, then creamy shortly after. But what do you all look out for in the 2ww??

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Footprints1 · 15/04/2016 18:11

CD14Star

Radders- your birthday tomorrow did u say? Hope u have a lovely day! It's my sons birthday tomorrow too- he's 7.

Footprints1 · 15/04/2016 18:14

Tee- from the other post I was on before a few ladies got their BFP's and they all seemed to have either creamy CM or clear CM and quite a bit of it. I suppose each body is different though.

Footprints1 · 15/04/2016 18:19

CD14Star

So today was a little bit confusing as I I took a opk test and the line was dark but not really as dark as the control line so I was unsure if I was near to ovulation or not. Luckily I had one spare clearblue digital opk left from last month so I used it and I got that big flashy smiley face!! Smile
Was so excited! So thank goodness we dtd the last few days ! Will try tonight too to make sure.. And then tomorrow (hopefully)

Anyone got a really dark line darker than the control line on the cheapy tests on Amazon?

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SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 18:24

tee I'm on day 23 AF is due Thursday. I'll wait until then to test. I hate testing! Staring at that single line and feeling your heart sink Sad

On the other hand love a positive OPK footprints sounds like you've times things perfectly.

raddersmrs · 15/04/2016 19:39

After ovulation it goes creamy/sticky and then when get closer to AF it becomes dry. If it stays thick and creamy that is a sign of pregnancy.

Mine hasn't dried up yet but it's not thick and creamy.

Footprints so happy you got a BFP! According to smep when get positive opk should Dtd that day 2 days more and have a break for one day and then do it again. That's what we tried to do hence why so much Dtd.

It is my birthday tomorrow! So hopefully a nice present but I think with my dpo I think it's to early.

Work is a bit pants at the moment and it got to me but also think I'm
A bit more emotional than normal.

raddersmrs · 15/04/2016 19:47

Footprints sorry I meant a positive opk!

Footprints1 · 15/04/2016 19:49

Sorry to hear about work getting you down radders.

Yes will try to do all of those days! DH is exhausted. He keeps saying I've been eating too much aphrodisiacs! Wink

Jod1985 · 15/04/2016 22:14

Still no AF but interesting to read your CM comments as I was about to ask about it. Mine is creamy / clear and quite a bit of it? I thought if AF was on route it would have dried up.

My boobs don't usually hurt in lead up to AF. (I think someone asked me that)

I calmed down this afternoon and spent the day with my oldest having quality time.

SuchaJem · 15/04/2016 22:41

Fx for a birthday bfp radders Smile

Footprints1 · 16/04/2016 06:15

CD15Star

Yay!
Another CD day!

That's ok radders I knew what u meant.

Well so disappointed that I fell asleep last night before dtd. Typical timing. So 5am this morning I woke poor DH up!Halo
He wasn't best pleasedHmm dtd regardless Grin. So I'm hoping I covered the chances. Cd15, cd13,cd12,cd11 cd9. Maybe again tonight! My temp took a dip cd13, then up cd14, same temp cd15. So don't think it's over yet.

Footprints1 · 16/04/2016 06:15

Happy birthday radders** StarCakeChocolateThanksBrewWineBiscuit

raddersmrs · 16/04/2016 06:20

Thank you!!!

And look ..... !!

In complete shock! Just crying my eyes out xxx

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