i gave birth to my ds a week ago. but while in labor the midwife who was my dh ex girlfriend was terrible she was blaming me for everything about half ogf her arm was in my lady parts while giving birth which im sure i dangerous she told me to calm down but i couldnt because i was in so much pain then after i gave birth she had the cheek to call my ds a frog because of his large head. and tis was the reason for the painful birth no love it was ypu fat hand which made the birth more painful then it should be. i feel sorry for the poor women who have to have her as a midwife she was a joke. and im psure she was trying to get it on with my dh. comments like ' is she always like this i dont know how you cope' like was that needed. then she says 'it gorgous just like his daddy' then looks straight at me with an evil glare after. like seriously? why is she being so immature. should i complain to the hospital about this because im really worried that she may be treating other patients the same way.