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[softmusk]

when me and my dh are ttc is it better that his sperm are new as in he did his thing the day before or that they have been about for a few day or does it not matter if that makes sense

I dont get that, but bless

is it better for my dh to of ejaculated the day before we ttc or a couple of days before

Oh right, DH was once told to save it all up for mid cycle (sorry if TMI)

i think sperm are replenished fairly frequently, so you are not going to only have old and knackered sperm hanging around...

i donlt think he needs to 'offload' before you try to conceive...if that is what you mean

cheers

softmusk:
That is funny, "did his thing" I had to have mine STOP doing his thing for a few days because if the sperm count is low, you want him to not ejac for a few days it takes 3 days for them to mature is what the gyno told me, but if it's more than 5 days, they aren't good quality, so I would say he shouldn't unload for at least 2-3 days, then they are mature and more able to do the work of traveling and fertilizing. Hope this helps.