I'm not really sure what the point of starting this thread is but it's not the sort of thing I can/ want to talk to RL people about! Basically we have decided to ttc again (dd almost 3 and mc in Oct)and it feels strange. I have been trying to 'persuade' dh for ages (with no pressue though!)and he has said he now feels ready but the reality of it feels very strange.
THere are so many things going round in my head...what if I have another m/c and how I would cope with it (don't think I could tbh)... my cycle is irregular and long (anything from 35-45 days) so will it be difficult to conceive- although dd and mc were unexpected- and I suppose the reality of how another baby will impact on us as a family and how difficult it will be to cope. We're going on holiday in March and I'm also stressing about what will happen if I get pg before then and I have another mc when I'm there.
I'm aware that this is a rambling mess but I hope it makes sense. Well done if you have reached the end of it and if you have any wise words of wisdom or experience please share them!