My dh had a vesectomy last year as we decided that our family was complete 2 days after his procedure i found out that i was pregnant with no3 i was shocked and confused i went for a ep scan as i wasnt feeling great cramps etc they told me i was 15 weeks but there were problems and he was not compatible with life anechpily and edwards syndrome so we decised to do mm mc 2 weeks later abput 1 hkur before my op i started to bleed heavily abd ended up giving birth to him on my own in a side room fast forward 10 months and i still cabt watch the pampers advert or watch anythjng with a newborn on. Parf of me would like to have another but i know id have to cheat on my husband help!