February bus - all aboard for bfps

[TinyPawz]

There doesn't seem to be a February bus yet but that is where I need to be because of longish cycles.

I'm 35 (how did that happen??)
ttc #2 (Dd 9)
Cycle far too many
Mc 9 weeks Jan 15, mc 5 weeks Nov 15.
Cd1
Etd 1 Feb

Argh wish there was a bloody edit button!

celen congratulations to your dh and enjoy the champers.

nene that definitely looks like a positive to me. Get bonking!!

nenehoo get it on lady!

(Don't forget the preseed )

Well it's all go round here this evening! I have slept all afternoon and then stuffed myself with lasagne - the thought of DTD leaves me

Well we did it thurs morning and last night - maybe tonight or tomorrow morning, then Monday morning. What's the SMEP rule - day of ov, day after and day after that? Ach I dunno... I've been drinking rum the past two nights so I'm prob out anyway. Big notice on back of bottle saying 'do not drink if you're TTC'

With your ov stick earlier nene, I'd bonk DH tonight, tomorrow if you can manage it then forget about it okay start the dpo countdown and symptom spot instead

Don't worry too much about the rum!

Okay nerves are starting to get to me now.
Only reason I haven't tested is because I am so scared. Scared of a bfn, scared AF will arrive, scared I will be BFP but lose it again. Ideally I want DH to impregnate me then fall asleep and wake up at 12 weeks!
Luckily I've had issues with clients and my tax return to take my mind off it.
Going back a bit but on Jan 3rd I had a tiny but of pink spotting when I wiped and the next day my AF properly started. Which day is CD1?
Checked my cervix earlier and it was high but not sure if it was open or closed - does that mean anything? Oh well fx witch doesn't turn up in the morning.

I would say jan4 is cd1,when af properly arrived.best of luck and hope u get a sticky bfp!

Good morning all. So today's the day and I have sneaked to the loo to have a quick POAS. There is a faint but very definite BFP, will try upload a pic later but it is too dark and can't see line in pics. Just had a good cry to celebrate, am very worried AF is going to show up but will try and enjoy the moment for what it is. DH asked me not to test early this time as he prefers not to know from the start so for now this is between you and me. So happy

haveto so thrilled for u!!! Huge congrats I understand the anxiety that comes with it after uve experienced a loss - but just try and have faith things will work out fine.

I hope u have a very boring and uneventful 9 months!! Hugs xxx

YES havetobe!!! Everything crossed for you! X

Well done Havetobe, I expect you're relieved and anxious at the same time? Hope you have a nice boring pregnancy

Aw congrats Havetobe.

It's so stressful becoming pg after a loss but I hope you have a very uneventful pregnancy.

Congratulations on your bfp Havetobe fx for you.

Congrats havetobe!

AF arrived, although to be fair I've known I've been out for a while because of not ovulating. Was holding on to a glimmer of hope that I ovulated late. Anyway off to the March bus for me. Good luck ladies

Congratulations havetobe! Could you possibly arrange some early reassurance scans for a couple of weeks time, to see you to 12 weeks? I had three scans in the first 11 weeks with dd2, after my MC. Paid private, but they kept me sane-ish.

Sorry about the witch tinypawz. Fx for an egg-laden month for you.

Yay haveto congratulations!!

Can I join?

Age: 30
TTC #2, DS is 19 months old
CD 13

Cycle all over the shop since stopping BFing and coming off cerazette, but i think I should be ovulating within the next few days. This is our first month TTC, and I'm convinced it 's going to be difficult this time because with DS I got pregnant the first month of not really trying!

Congrats Havetobe! I agree to maybe having a reassurance scan. It may help just to reduce your anxiety. xx

And welcome Schnitzel. We have very similar stats - I am also 30, TTC number 2 and am on CD12. I have a 16 month old DD already. It's my second month TTC and I conceived DD the second month of trying so hoping I get the same again. xx

Congrats Havetobe! Really pleased for you.

(It's English with a new username)

9dpo today and just got the faintest of fainty faint bfps on an IC. Feeling bubbles of excitement but trying to reign it in until I see a darker line (might do a digital test tomorrow). I have had an evap on an IC before but this looks different (and wasn't there when I tested yesterday at 8dpo... I know I know POAS addict!) Fingers firmly crossed.

Baby dust all!

angharad/English you naughty early tester you!!!! But how fantastic! Got a picture for us all to squint at your line?

What a fantastic start to the bus. Well done ladies.

Does any use Fertility Friend? I have become slightly obsessed with the pregnancy monitor feature. I am currently on 16 points (6dpo) and I keep trying different combos of symptoms to see what makes it higher

Oooh another BFP!! Congrats angharad

giraffes it is my first month using fertility friend - I have not explored the pregnancy monitor....now u have tempted me to delve deeper in to the crazy I am going to check it out.

I think I am roughly 3dpo and now we have done all we can and the dtd frenzy has finished, I'm a little deflated and the 2ww is feeling looooong!! Still not been back to GP after scan a week or so ago to discuss polycystic ovaries and have been successfully ignoring it, but the doubt has been creeping into my head today - really hoping I released an egg and all our efforts were not wasted!!

Let's hope the BFP on this thread keep coming good luck and baby dust everyone xx

Thanks Giraffes and Lucinda!

Just showed DH my v v v faint line and he was very skeptical as usual! He'll only accept it if I can show him a nice big 'pregnant' on a digital in a day or two (too scared to do one today!)

Lucinda, great work on finishing the DTD marathon. Pat yourself on the back for giving it your very best shot! Fingers crossed it's your month.

Tentative congrats Angharad! Sounds hopeful though! xx