Im sorry. It's so shit. But there are plenty of hand holders in the same boat.
Have you been trying long?
I got a BFN myself yesterday but probably picked up the pissy stick too early. My boobs have been very tingly so that'll make getting a BFN so much harder.
It's so frustrating when you do everything right and other people seem to manage it at the drop of a hat.
Take care of yourself.