help am desparate for a baby

[truelydepressed]

any courage or suggestions out there.. doc says all is well but for some reason conception hasnot been sucesful. has any one here tried pregnacare conception and any luck with it?

Hey truly,

Ok breath... How long have you been trying? Have you recently come off contraception? Are you regular? Have you tried tracking your temp or using ov kits?

There are lots of lovely people on here with lots of experience and lots of good support groups but sometimes it's just a matter of being patient. x

hey runner05,

been trying for a year now.. never used contraceptives and period very regular. its the breathing part i haven't really done. i sort of feel like am doing everything right.

Well in that case I would suggest that you join in with some of the groups (the October bus thread seems to be very lucky this month!) there are lots of ladies on here who are in a similar situation and will be able to give you the support to help you breath.

In the mean time, you might want to start plotting your cycle to make sure you're ovulating when you think you are. What vitamins are you taking at the moment? Most women take some concoction of vitamins while ttc and different ones can assist with different things.

Has your partner been checked out also?

Do you mind me asking how old you are? It does play a part in how easy (probably the wrong word) it is to fall pregnant.

thx Runner05, this surely is already helping.. well am 28 and i have only tried a mix of clomid and pregnacare vitamins to boost my body and prepare it, let me join the october bus as suggested i may get as lucky.

yes partner been tested too and everything looks fine. its really nice sharing with a friendly soul. thx hun

Were you prescribed clomid? If ovulation is all ok you wouldn't need it.

Easy to say but sometimes it just takes time - took me two years but we didn't chart or anything like that.

Hey truly, glad talking about it is helping. I don't know anything about clomid but I know there are people on the just shagging thread who do.

If you're both healthy and young then perhaps the best thing you can do is stay on here, talk it out and and try to relax. Stress isn't good for baby making.