We have two amazing children but I have always wanted a third. My DH has finally come around to the idea and we have been TTC for four months. I am 39 so feel a bit time pressured. My youngest is 7 so there will be a big age gap. I know that with my age things may take a bit longer but the longer it takes the biggest the age gap will be and the more difficult it will be to adapt again to a baby. I am starting to have second thoughts about whether a new baby at this stage will actually be a positive thing for our family. I just wondered if anyone else trying for number three felt like this or if?