TTC and going crazy

[farmersgotawife]

Hi, this is my first time posting on here, so hope I get it right...

So we have been ttc for about 8 months with many negative tests because I thought I had symptoms. For the past 2 months we had the approach of just to enjoy it etc like everyone tells you to. This month I was due to come on a week ago. I didn't, I tested 2 days late but negative. I was going to test today but I have started a really weird AF. Very light for me. Also this past week I have been experiencing more pregnancy symptoms like very sore and veiny breasts, weird stomach twinges and feeling very very sick which is unlike me.

So now I have come on I don't know whether to test or not??

I need to know if I am or not though just to stop me form going stir crazy.

Any advice or tips would be much appreciated.

Thank you

You poor thing how frustrating. You certainly hear of people not getting their bfp until man days after AF was due. But , whether to test or not depends more on you. Will it upset you to see another negative? Especially if you might get a positive a few days later?

Personally I would leave it and see what AF does. But I know it'll be on your mind all the time! Its very hard to think 'i'll give it two more days' and stick to it.