I am in need of some objective opinions on this as me and DH are going round in circles discussing this.
We have been trying to TTC no.3. Our youngest is 3.5 years and I am starting to panic about the age gap. We have tried for 5 months and have had one early MC.
Anyway the problem is that I am a bridesmaid in June 2016 for my oldest, closest friend and the dresses are bought and paid for etc. My dress is quite large on me so there is room to take it in.
We have one more month to try, this month. If successful we would end up with a baby in early May, one month before the wedding.
The other option is to postpone TTC until Feb-March 2016 and this way if we were successful I would have a small-medium bump at the wedding.
I have been considering all the potential problems...being exhausted with a newborn at the wedding vs being pregnant, having the baby that we want vs putting it off for another 6 months.
Other people around me are announcing pregnancies and I am envious, on the other hand 6 months isn't that long to wait and I could concentrate on getting fit and healthy etc so that I am in the best shape for next year.
All opinions are very much welcome!