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TTC and still breastfeeding? Thread # 5 - Positive Vibes!

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peardrop2 · 18/07/2015 23:42

Peardrop - age 33, TTC cycle #9, DS is 26 months (stopped bf soon to be 4 months ago). Af returned when DS 14months, currently on CD14 and have had 4 flashing smileys. Praying for a static smiley tomorrow! Dangling legs in air!

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peardrop2 · 06/08/2015 08:09

Lea I probably won't test

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MinisMama13 · 06/08/2015 08:11

Pear when is your designated poas date?
I'm really hoping that a longer lp will help but I still think it'll be a while. In all honesty I think mini bf all night won't help!

Lea I certainly did, ate the lot! Ooops!

ispyfispi · 06/08/2015 08:14

Yes sorry Mini, have as much chocolate as you need!

Congratulations Lost, I'm keen to keen to hear how bf in pregnancy goes incase we're lucky enough to get a bfp soon. I hope it all goes well.

Well done for not testing Pear, I'm impressed!

So it's ov day here after my fixed smiley yesterday. Have been dtd lots, maybe too much?! Will enjoy it for another day before I lose interest for the rest of the month Confused

Leamice · 06/08/2015 08:24

But you'll need to test when AF is late Pear!

Glad you enjoyed your chocolate Mini :)

Good luck ispy hopefully all that dtd has paid off and you will get you bfp in 2 weeks time :)

peardrop2 · 06/08/2015 08:48

In previous cycles I start spitting at lunchtime tomorrow so if I haven't had anything I will test on Saturday morning at 12dpo. Do NOT let me test before Wink 9 cycles of this rubbish has made me waste ALOT of money!

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ispyfispi · 06/08/2015 09:26

A question for you clever ttc experts- my ic opk was a strong line yesterday which was the day of my fixed smiley but today, which I would assume is ovulation day the ic only has a thin line? Interested to know when ovulation occurs as an extra day to my lp would be great!

lostindubai · 06/08/2015 10:14

Thanks for the lovely messages. Pear I didn't realise I was on the 2ww either (what is a 2ww?!) I'm useless with the abbreviations!

ispyfispi · 06/08/2015 10:24

Two week wait, between ovulating and either period or positive pregnancy test ????

Leamice · 06/08/2015 11:58

Maybe you Ovd yesterday then ispy? Or could have been a short surge? Maybe test again tomorrow just in case it was a "practice" surge, sometimes your body gears up to ov then doesn't quite make it so retries a few days later. I'm definitely no expert though but I have done a lot of googling in this limbo land of infertility.

peardrop2 · 06/08/2015 13:18

Ispy - that's interesting. I would say that you OV'd last night then. You're quite late in your cycle already for it to be a false alarm. Just my opinion. We won't really know because it's only your temp that will ever give a proper understanding of the exact day Confused Perhaps if you had tested in the evening (Tuesday) you could have got a static then and then it really wouldn't have been much surprise that your OV'd yesterday?!

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peardrop2 · 06/08/2015 13:20

One play date done...one to go. I have no patience today. Lost my cool this morning and now I'm really annoyed because a fly is buzzing around and won't buzz off Confused A major PMS sign Confused

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peardrop2 · 06/08/2015 20:07

Evening! It turns out that DH is now working late tomorrow night so I won't be able to go for that drink after all Hmm I'm going to have to let my sister down really really gently! I'm also going to buy a big bottle of red, Brie and Stilton. Oh and maybe pate Winkobviously I'll wait for the first signs before I know it's game over!!

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ispyfispi · 06/08/2015 21:04

Good plan Pear although boo about not getting to go out!

I'm thinking I must've ovd late yesterday or early today as ewcm has disappeared today. It's really good timing as we are off camping tomorrow so won't have to worry about dtd on an airbed with a cosleeping toddler and an 8yr old and an 11yr old in the tent!

MinisMama13 · 06/08/2015 21:20

Ispy I think with any ovulation test can give you an answer that you're getting ready to ov and it will likely be within the next 48 ish hours. The problem is they don't say when. I know in theory you ov on your second peak day but it could happen on the first. I sometimes will have a positive opk ic 2 days in a row but not always and I find the second line disappears quickly! I don't think I've helped there at all as I forgot my point!

Pear I have everything crossed that the spotting doesn't show! Wine is a good back up plan though!

Cd1 for me and as an extra punch one of the ladies at my exercise class told me she's pregnant tonight whilst we were warming up. It took me a minute for my brain to engage and say congratulations. I am happy for her though. Well mostly lol. Pregnant people everywhere it seems!

ispyfispi · 06/08/2015 22:34

No that's interesting thank you Mini. Sorry about the pregnancy announcement on today of all days....

MinisMama13 · 07/08/2015 00:44

Hahaha it can't be helped. Just typical timing! Think I'm being over sensitive tbh. DH isn't helping as he keeps having digs about my mood. I wouldn't be in a mood if he would be helpful! Gah!
Hope you enjoy camping ispy!
Oh I meant to add I don't get ewcm on ov day, just in the run up to. How weird!

Any word from Dougal? Hope I haven't missed it.

peardrop2 · 07/08/2015 13:09

Results are back. Looks like I ovulated. I haven't had my usual lunchtime spotting yet but I can feel that it's on it's way Hmm

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ispyfispi · 07/08/2015 13:19

Oh that's good news though Pear!

I may be off the grid now we're off camping. I'm hoping there might just be a BFP while I'm gone Wink

peardrop2 · 07/08/2015 13:42

My results are 53.1 but that doesn't mean anything to me. If I'm ovulating (which I didn't doubt) then it's pointing more towards the later stage that something goes wrong which is what I thought because of bf for so long Hmm so know I should feel happy for ovulating but I'm even more frustrated that it doesn't mean I'm pregnant which is silly I know Sad

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peardrop2 · 07/08/2015 13:43

I spy - have a good time. Hope the weather stays warm for you Smile

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peardrop2 · 07/08/2015 20:52

Does anyone on here do no2 a lot before AF arrives? I've been 3x today which is odd for me. I've googled and its suggests that progesterone is dropping. However, I've not experienced this before like today.

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MinisMama13 · 07/08/2015 22:22

Ooo Pear the results sound positive although I do get what you mean when you are thinking it could be something else. It could just be one of those things, I know that is the most frustrating thing anyone can say so please don't hate me!
Urm I have IBD so I assumed maybe it was just me affected in that sort of way!
Also going lots is as much as a sign of pg as constipation is!
Really hoping tour spotting has stayed away and you get your bfp Smile

Ispy hope you have a great time away! Smile

peardrop2 · 07/08/2015 22:37

Oh thanks for your support Mini! After lots of thought tonight I've given myself a slap for being so selfish. I'm happy that I've ovulated. It is probably just one of those things stopping me falling pregnant like you say. I am so grateful when so many ladies struggle at the first hurdle. I haven't started spotting yet so it looks like I'll have a 12 day LP this month (instead of the 10/11 days I've had in all the previous 8 cycles that I've monitored) which is a fantastic sign that things are settling! We will try again next month and should I be so lucky to have another May miracle then I'll be truly blessed!

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MinisMama13 · 07/08/2015 22:57

Don't write yourself off yet! Completely understand having a plan in place though! I think an extra lp day is always a bonus, a good sign things are settling for you. The problem with the bloods is you need it dine a few times to be able to estimate the overall picture but it's obviously looking good. I wish I could remember my numbers to tell you but it was far too long ago (2012!)

Leamice · 07/08/2015 23:46

Yes