It's staying light longer and we are taking the opportunity to get well and truly upduffed, yes that's right, three BFPs in one day! That's the May bus for you.

[nightandthelight]

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Forgive me ladies but I must rush, DH is waiting to inseminate me!

Carrot glad you're not in pain. I hope the physical stuff is quickly over for you. Hope you've been able to get some rest as you've been through the a lot physically and emotionally.

Carlton I must admit I've never had the urge to do that. Can you imagine the look on someone's face if you were to tell them that?!

I'm just happy that I'm not the only checking my cervix during bathroom breaks at work!

carrot such a crap experience but pleased that you're being looked after well.

dizzy
Pleasure wish! Keep us up to date of what you decide to do!

Just me then clearly! pulpi I wasn't really checking as such, it was just when I wiped

Carlton, I laughed out loud when I read you last post! You are so funny! I wish I was your colleague you could tell me all about your EWCM!!! Haaaa! I have to admit I talk about ttc WAY too much! I even tried to engage my dad! He was having none of it and left the room in a hurry mumbling something about leaving the iron on...
Carrot so glad u are feeling better!
Brooke, don't shut out your DH as he would want to support you! I think you are so sweet to think about his feeling and worry about him, but you need his love and support, let him in x
So I was right, I've been offered 21 day bloods. I told DH it was an mot. Which it is basically! I'm having swabs too (? Infection) due to my spotting which the doc was a bit concerned about... Watch this space!

Carrot - I'm afraid I missed your update. I am so so sorry. I really hope you're ok (well as ok as you possibly can be). Look after yourself x x x

#####UPDATED STATS#####

FF has confirmed ov for me on CD12

DH and I have made the decision that if no BFP this cycle we are going to suspend TTC and look into fostering! Fostering/adoption is something that I have always wanted to do so am really excited

Brooke you'd probably want to help your chap if he had some tough stuff to deal with- I'm sure he feels the same

Its all I think about at work! We're planning some stuff for next year and I catch myself thinking 'hope I'm sat at home with a 2mo then...'

Hurray for ov! And fostering! :)

night fx for you, but how exciting about fostering/adopting.dh and I have discussed this too, Not now but will definitely consider
If things don't go to plan. There are so many children in need of a loving home and a family, such a lovely thing to do x

Thanks guys :) Am terrified but very excited at the same time! Of course we might not be approved

Wow night that's awesome! Both of my parents were fostered/adopted and it definitely something I will be considering, probably not until I'm much older though, and can afford to stay at home. Yay for ov too! Will you carry on dtd or have a rest now?

Thanks Carlton :) money is something that we will have to consider but with the allowance it should be feasible for me to at least go part time.

Just dtd when we fancy now thankfully :) How is it going with you?

Yea not bad thanks didn't manage to dtd last night but will try for the next 3 nights! Getting worried about all the functions and weddings I've got coming up and how I might feel sick/not fit into dresses/can't drink for them though

Vomit is the new hot trend at weddings I had heard Carlton

Really? I hadn't heard that, I am behind with the latest trends though. Maybe I could get a vomit coloured dress - that way it could match my face

Hugs to carrot and a big crossing of the fingers for night. I really had no idea that ttc would be such an emotional rollercoaster.

I'm planning on rocking a huge A Line skirt in a bright colour

How are you doing pulpi?

Me? I'm doing pretty well, all things considered. New job, finished school, going on holiday next week (first time in 6 years!).... but I am worried that I'm not ovulating as much as I used to. Before I knew what EWCM was, I had it every damn month. Now, it feels like a long while since I've seen it. I know fertility starts to dive around 35, but I just turned 33 so I'm hoping I've got some time yet. In the meanwhile, both DH and I are taking conception support vitamins (Pregnacare) and at it like rabbits. Fingers crossed this month will be some good news.

How goes it with you Carlton?

I feel the same pulpi, Iv just turned 33 and thinking it's something to do with my age why no bfp yet. I also remember before ttc I used to have lots of EWCM and now none existent. Thought it was just me that happened to, and can't understand why it stopped as soon as TTC. Iv started drinking grape fruit juice this cycle as I read somewhere that that helps. I did notice slightly more this cycle, it's not the nicest to drink but I'm going to persevere with it. Nice your going on holiday after so long not, maybe will help with bfp.

pulpi glad you're ok, I have noticed my cycle go a bit weird in the last 2 months too, it's like it was so regular before and now that I need it to be regular it's not so much! I think sometimes if you are really trying to notice and track stuff and it's important to you all these things come out the woodwork that were probably there before but just passed you by. A holiday sounds like a brilliant way to conceive, will you be ovulating while you're away? I hope you have a fab time

Thanks for the updated stats night

Can I update mine? I'm on CD9 on cycle 2 with AF due 11 June

Hope everyone is doing ok today x