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It's staying light longer and we are taking the opportunity to get well and truly upduffed, yes that's right, three BFPs in one day! That's the May bus for you.

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nightandthelight · 15/05/2015 21:34

#####STATS#####

Forgive me ladies but I must rush, DH is waiting to inseminate me!

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DizzyMerry · 29/05/2015 19:58

Southy insist on another blood test and hopefully you won't be refused. There's no point waiting another month and the blood tests you've had done won't be accurate if they don't tie in with your cycle days. I'm in limbo really as I don't know whether I have ovulated or not but FF thinks I have. Either way my temps are really low so need to get that sorted.

MissMartin1992 · 29/05/2015 20:34

pog if it reassures you i had a bleed when my af was due and it was red blood for a few hours followed by brown spotting.. i had a really bad pain and litrally i felt the blood shoot out of me it was horrible i just remained calm i didn't call my dr because it was at night time i just braced myself for the worst and luckly everything was fine then next day and so on. . and this was last wed .. i blame it on breakthrough bleeding.. when was ur af due??
i hope you okay it is very scary Thanks xx

Pogmella · 29/05/2015 20:44

Thanks so much miss that is really reassuring. I wasn't going to call the Dr because it was so light and the day after af due, I was just there to book in for 8 week check up. I've got period type cramps which google tells me is pretty normal (and normally you can find at least four rare fatal causes for pretty much anything, right?)

MissMartin1992 · 29/05/2015 20:56

that's what mine was like! i wouldnt worry though and google is full of bad things and good i suppose if you google 'bleeding when period due early pregnancy ' i can't find anything that dosent seem like its not normal for this to happen Smile

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 20:59

merry I will be forceful on Monday then Wink luckily I'm speaking with a Dr who I know is very sympathetic (I spoke to them after my mc and he was great) Hope you don't mind me asking but how low are your temps? Mine are low but I've been convincing myself I have a faulty thermometer ...

Carltonlives · 29/05/2015 21:10

Hey everyone! Hope you're all good!

Welcome back boris and dizzyn!

pog that doctor was not reassuring! All you can do is sit tight and keep positive. Plenty people have bleeding in early pregnancy don't they

southy I reckon if you explain it to the doctor when you go it will be fine. Just explain that you don't want to wait a whole month more for the bloods

Hopefully you have ov'd dizzy! Do you think you timed dtd well?

night only a couple more days to wait for you!! Any symptoms?!

Anyone got any good weekend plans?

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 21:18

Hi carlton thank you, I hope they listen. I've already had to wait two cycles to get my bloods in since speaking to the Dr, as first cycle Id already missed my chance for the first one, and was told to try to do both in the same cycle. Then the following I was on holiday and couldn't get them done, it's just frustrating that everything takes so long.

I'm having a lazy weekend, had a hectic one last weekend so need a lie in! how about you?

Carltonlives · 29/05/2015 21:25

Uh lie ins are a thing of the past for me!! We will probably venture out to a farm or soft play I imagine but I don't have any plans as such which is usual for me. It's so weird tho, I love the weekends so much but I just want this one to be over so I will be closer to my testing day! Blush

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 21:43

Sounds fun! quite jealous! When's your testing day?

Carltonlives · 29/05/2015 21:50

Well my af is due on Friday based on a 30 day cycle but it varies, quite a few cycles are 27-28 days so I could come on before I get to test. I reckon to test Friday or Saturday? I want to do it with my dh too cos he's super excited Grin

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 21:56

Ohh I'm excited for you Smile I always wait but my cycles can be weird, if I was you Id go for Friday, I have my fx for you! Think Af is due for me about next weekend ish- losing track!

DizzyMerry · 29/05/2015 22:00

I have attached my chart but I'm convinced I haven't ovulated this cycle Sad

It's staying light longer and we are taking the opportunity to get well and truly upduffed, yes that's right, three BFPs in one day! That's the May bus for you.
Southy84 · 29/05/2015 22:01

Yes possibly next Sunday AF for me or slightly later is also highly likely

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 22:04

I wish I knew how to interpret them merry I am attaching mine for laughs Shock you are not alone with the low temps tho x

It's staying light longer and we are taking the opportunity to get well and truly upduffed, yes that's right, three BFPs in one day! That's the May bus for you.
DizzyMerry · 29/05/2015 22:07

I have low progesterone southy so I'm sure that's the reason for my low temps. I don't want to hazard a guess at yours though at it may or may not be an issue. It is easily fixed with clomid but just need to wait for my referral. I'm hoping acupuncture and herbs help but not seen much benefit yet

Carltonlives · 29/05/2015 22:09

I wish I knew something about charts to help you guys but I literally don't! Oh southy you don't have long to wait either! When are you testing dizzy?

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 22:10

Oh jeez maybe this temping is telling me something... However I don't ever feel cold? Do you? Maybe I need to re-visit the acupuncture idea

DizzyMerry · 29/05/2015 22:12

Carlton I won't be testing as I don't believe I've ovulated.

Southy sorry to alarm you but as I say it may not be an issue for you. My hands and feet are always cold.

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 22:14

I have two cheapy morrisons tests in the cupboard but they've been there for a while, I hate testing. It's also difficult to get hopes up as DH works away a lot so we DTD as often as poss but not sure it's always well timed

Southy84 · 29/05/2015 22:15

It's ok merry I kinda think something's up with me anyway as dh is fine. I don't suffer with cold hands, sometimes my feet are like ice at night though and dh has a go at me when I try to warm them up Grin

wishiwaspregnant · 30/05/2015 00:11

Hello all (waves) looks like temping is a lot harder than it looks! My chart looks ok but I'm unable to temp throughout fertile window as on night shifts?! So at 6am I'll be at work! Got loads of EWCM today Cd12. Which freaked me out into doing an opk. Thankfully negative! Phew! DH is back in exactly 42 hours (not that I'm counting) hope my egg waits for him!!! Aaaah!!!! But it's good to see things happening a bit more timely this cycle... I ov'd cd18 last month! Got my fx for all testing over coming days... night how's you doing?

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nightandthelight · 30/05/2015 06:52

Sorry in laws here so don't have time to read back :(

Temp has plummeted to where it was at 12dpo last cycle so have switched off my TTC brain and am focusing on fostering.

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Carltonlives · 30/05/2015 07:48

I'm sorry night Sad

loopylou1984 · 30/05/2015 08:04

I think I'm out, my temp has dropped this morning. Cycle 20 and the last chance before IVF here I come... :(

wishiwaspregnant · 30/05/2015 09:03

Oh no that's horrible sammy and night so disappointing for you both ): why are our bodies so mean to us!!! Wish I had a magic wand. Have some cake and flowers instead. CakeCakeFlowersFlowers
Hope the fostering goes well night keep us posted. Plus you are both not out yet... Although you prob don't wana hear that x