RESPONSE trial thread

[Marchgirl]

For anyone who had joined or is thinking of joining the RESPONSE medical trial for recurrent miscarriage

Sorry for bfn kaz, but it is still early. If you got smiley last Sunday you could have ov any time between Sunday and Tuesday (most likely Monday), so you'll be between 7 and 9 dpo. It's not over yet. I have a good feeling.

Fingers crossed. Strangely just had a message via Facebook from a girl at work saying she had a really vivid dream last night that I was pregnant. She doesn't know all the ins and outs of the last 12months so her timing is a little spooky!

One test at a time kazz and most people don't get a bfp to around dpo 10/11, except super early Choccy!

Sorry ladies I was the same as Claire I thought no one was talking on here as had no emails but this morning I had one and had 3 pages I'd missed :(
Girlie glad your feeling better, I hope you still are ?
Kazz I was 13dpo from smiley but 12dpo from period before I got my bfp
I'm 9 weeks 5 according to trial or 9 weeks 4 according to period.
I have my '10' week scan tomorrow and if all goes well I have my midwife appt straight after which I'm scared about ! The scans have all shown I'm a couple of days behind and the last scan it had made up a day so hoping it's made up a couple more tomorrow.
Hope everyone else is ok xxx

Hello Loiuse

That's lovely that you doing so well. Your lucky getting a 10wk scan, I had my eight, then had to wait till 12!!! Felt like forever.
It's amazing how the little beans can grow and catch up. I got put forward as it was a good size by 12 weeks.

We can't wait till 20wks for the next scan so have booked a private one for just over 16, also hope to find out if it's ?? or ??!!!

Xx

Indie I know we are really lucky ! I don't think I could wait from 8 weeks to 12 weeks ! I'm going to struggle with not having one at 11 as I had to have one last week as had a lot of pain :( all seemed ok tho.
I've asked dh if we can have one a 16 weeks which he agreed if it cost £30
But it actually is £60 I'm just going I book it as I will need the reassurance until I can feel them.
I wanted to find out but someone said to me who had gone thru fertility treatment that they've gone thru so much that it might be there only baby they want a surprise now I'm thinking the same. If it's my only chance of having children do I want to find out.
Ha I will tho as I hate surprises :s xx

Just booked it, I would!!' Your piece of mind is very important at this stage! Ours is £55. And you get a cd, four pics, gender scan, and a sneak peek in 3D which will be very exciting, strange, bizarre to actually see baby! Plus we will be taking our DD, so I think it will be very special for her to see bump.

We want to know the sex, and I can completely understand the reasons for not too. But I do have about five suitcases of girls clothes in the loft, so if it's blue, I guess I will be having a carboot of girlie clothes! Or saving a few bob on them!

Hope everyone else is ok. Xx

You can always get them to write the sex down, put it in sealed envelope and you give it to a friend to look after.
Then if you and your partner/hubby decide to know, sign a bit of paper (as a joke) and give to your friend saying We would like to know now!!!! Xx

We didn't find out with ds as dh didn't want to know and the hospital wouldn't tell you if the other didn't want to know!!
I'm actually glad we had a surprise as it was lovely to guess all the way through, but I am so impatient and can't wait to find out next Wednesday at 20+4!! We were put off having a 16 week scan in the end as they are apparently only just noticeable and I didn't want them to get it wrong!!
Will still have a 4d one around 26/27 weeks to confirm it and take ds :)

Louise, place in Hinckley were only about £30 x

here you go it's £35
Other one is tummy2mummy that L recommended as is run by UHCW midwives x

I'm going to wait till my official 12 week scan and then I'll hopefully book the 16 week, thanks choccy hopefully dh will be happier with that price !

Ah Indie that will be nice I bet dd is so excited ! When have you got yours ?

Choccy I can't believe your half way how quick has that gone !! Xx

Just a little positive ray for us... Unlinked to the trial but still good to hear...

My sisters best friend suffered 3 consecutive miscarriages like us all with no specific reason found. She became pregnant for the 4th time and now has a lovely 10 month old baby. And shes just announced she is 12weeks pregnant again.

Just gives me faith that perserverance pays off and we will all get our happy ending! Dreading peeing on the stick again tomorrow morning!

Nope. :(

Enjoy your scan Louise x

Keep going Kazz.

How many days are you kazz? Keep going if it's not this month it'll be next. Which I know doesn't help x

Louise hope scan goes ok today and your dates get back on track :) Be a massive change from blob at 8 weeks, proper baby now!! Bet you can't wait!!!

Tell L and D I'll see them next weds and I'm so excited

Kazz, have you tried a different test? Xx

And amazing news about your friend kazz!

Good luck for the scan louise.

Still too early to give up kaz. I know it's disheartening but you still have a good chance. Fingers crossed for a positive before the weekend. If it was me I wouldn't be expecting anything before Friday/Saturday anyway, maybe even later with those tests, but i know it's hard to keep seeing that blank. Have you got any symptoms?

Kinda feeling a teensie bit excited today, as I have my first midwife appointment!!
Which I delayed going to the docs early on, and it got put back as we were on hols.
Also, by my scan dating I am 14weeks today!!!!!!!!

People are congratulating me, but I still and saying thank you, let's just keep our fingers crossed.
Which is rubbish to have to keep putting a downer on it, but I don't think I will let my self think it's a sure thing until a lot longer down the line, if at all. Xx

Have a good day all, the weather is a lot better here. A little sun and not gale force winds!!!!!

I'm exhausted and have been feeling sick since last weekend. My appetite is all over. But work is hell on earth atm so could all be that.

To make it worse my line manager is a total bitch. She's been trying to conceive after getting married at easter and is nasty as hell when she gets her AF. Want to scream - try living in our world!!!!

Just looked back at yesterday's messages and on the basis of that I'm only 8-10 days po. So... still a chance I suppose. Also the box says there's a 54% chance of it picking it up 4 days before. Expecting AF between Friday and Sunday. So today could be four days before. Suppose it's not over yet...

Good luck Louise

best of luck Louise .

sorry about bfn kazz your not out until af shows x

Where's that Louise!?!? Hope all ok x

Where's that Louise?!? Hope all ok xx

Well today started well. Not! Dropped the entire pee stick still in the wrapper into my full pee pot! Once wrapper removed stoll a bfn. :(

How did you get on Louise? Hope everything is OK. Xxx