The Bumsnet/Angry Pubes Bus

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If you like to talk rubbish & refuse to give up your seat for anyone, this is the place for you! Come and ebjoy our Zen Den & a Nutella Cellar.
No LPBs allowed.

Oh I see whitwoo I think it's moreso when an unknown pops up to tell us they're pregnant after one month of trying...

Any who... what's for tea in Bumsnetland tonight?

been trying for 3 years ... clomid mmc. il just jump to any conclusion though ay

You're just being defensive now.

dojo I had a massive 'spring clean' of so called friends when it was apparent they didn't want to offer support. Feel better for it

juney DH is trying to redeem himself by cooking dinner whilst I'm having a nice hot bath. He may want to omit putting knives on the table!

Not too hot I hope mrsb protect your eggy!

chantelle nobody has directed any comments at you personally, so stop taking it that way. A few weeks ago there was a flurry of several new people posting about their BFPs.

Juney DH is out for the evening with work so, unlike him who cooked himself rack of lamb one night and place fillet the other night when I was away this week, I will be opening a readymeal pasta packet out of the cupboard as I can't be bothered to do any proper cooking.

Dojo I'm so pleased you have your sis to talk to and that she asked after your feelings. My sis is (I think) TTC at the moment but we haven't spoken about it - she is 2 years older than me and has been wanting children for ages but her DH has just decided recently that he is now ready. I think she'd be secretly a bit upset if I got pregnant before her, so I'm crossing my fingers that we'll both have big news to share soon.

whitwoo one thing I think I have learnt from this bus is that things are said sometimes with tongue firmly in cheek. We do like to hear from those who have been on buses for long period of time and do get a BFP. There are some people who do like to keep quiet and not post very often and I can understand that but then there are some of us who feel the need to vocalise a lot. We're here for support and as Juney says above, that statement is probably aimed at the lucky few who do get their BFP on their first go. It's only because we're envious of them.

BFN on a frer guess I'm safe to get on the vino tonight then!
Will catch up on the bus again in a bit...!

Ooo woolly still early yet :/ but if you need the wine...

maybe i read it wrong and was x post. Been on many buses and many topics just want you all to have some bloody good news! x

Yay! Loving this, we can all stay together!

Need to read back, is the March bus being left to rust then? Abandoned in some grotty layby amidst the McDonald's wrappers and used johnnies?!

#####DizzyNorthernBird, 35, ttc #1, cycle #4, bfp due 8th April ####

chantelle the fact that it was an original post before you posted anything points out that it's not about you. Don't take it so personal. This is a happy bus

Juney sorry you're friend was a twat, we can handhold and rent out our DHs

DP had to stick up for me & DS tonight to his mum who bit his head off about finances. I mentioned to his sister that we were considering a financial commitment of something and she went off and blabbed to their Mum that we had decided that it what we are going to do! She then kicked off that I have debt that I'm trying to pay off and TTC and more commitments wasn't very wise and went on about not being able to bale us out - which she had never done (Very General here, sorry). He normally just apologises and accepts that she has a point as he likes to keep the peace. But tonight he said it's none of their business and stuck up for us. So poud!

But then because his mum pissed him off he had a row with me over mumsnet.

LPB can have the March Bus if they so wish...

Ohh no mummy sorry you've been rowing! It's good he stuck up for you in the first place though!

Yay for your DH doing the right thing mummy . But booo that he then had a row with you. About Mumsnet?! Tell him it's not Mumsnet anymore, it's bumsnet . And the pubes are already angry so they don't need aggro from him as well.

Mrsb hope your ok, I'm still in shock that your friend sad that about the doctor, I'm not surprised you lessened contact.

Aww mummy that sucks, my mil is similar she drives me nuts, she thinks she's so bloody perfect! off on mil from hell rant sorry!! back to point good for your DH for standing up to her but boo to rowing, hope you make up quickly

pug haha

mummy glad DH stood up to your mil and defended you and your ds. Sorry that this has meant you've now fallen out over Mumsnet. I know my DH rolls his eyes over the amount of time I spend on here but I try and make sure I do step away from here when we're back home of an evening. (Currently waiting for my DH in the car so can spend as much time as I like!)

He stropped for a bit in the garage, came in and was stroppy. He is now playing some weird game that he and DS just made up knocking down figurines.

hahaha pug !!

mummy must be something in the air. Lets hope our respective DHs start to behave.
I get that from some family members/friends re over committing. Some people need to learn to just hush.

frog I understand that some people find it awkward to help support those going through mc, but you wouldn't believe some comments/messages I had. It sure opened my eyes.

I'm meant to ring and catch up with my mum tomorrow, but I feel so emotional I'd probably just burst into tears. She needs to take a long holiday to come see her most favourite child.

juney wasn't too warm...promise :)

Juney I'm so sorry you feeling there's that extra pressure for you too knowing you don't have a guy on tap ready to give you the goods like us lot- although that brings with it it's own issues!- however you have made it this far.. I know you will get there. Have you thought about other options? We are all here with you and rooting for our Juney! You are gonna be a mama I know it

It looks like my bosses orchestra will be on bbc1 at 7.30!

Aww thanks Sparkly luffs you!

I emailed a man today who helps A LOT of people in the area which puts me off a bit but he has assured me he provides names to all recipients so they can keep teenagers away from each other if you know what I mean!

Hello ladies, I've just been directed over here! Been absent for a while due to work and then my lovely grandad passed away :(

Juney sorry your feeling down, sometimes friends don't act the way we expect not out of malice just not thinking.

Mummy sorry that you and dh had a row, but good on him for sticking up for you.

Good luck to all those currently in the ov zone.

glittery my current fave is starting doggy style leaning over the end of the sofa but then lifting my feet up like I'm flying. Movement is limited but it feels amazing for both of us and I believe is good position for ttc although I know it apparently doesn't matter

I'm 11 dpo and had a faint BFP today. Boobs are really sore for the last few days which made me suspect. Not quite sunk in yet so fx for a sticky bean. Off to Spain tonight, so hoping morning sickness doesn't kick in for a couple of weeks, though a bit gutted the sangria and seafood are probably now off the menu. Going with pil and sil&p and they know we have been ttc since Xmas so will prob guess which is a bit weird.

Omg that's a long post. X

What Sparkly said, Juney. We all really want to see you get your BFP and there's always someone here you can talk to if your real life friends aren't available

Ooh, on Room 101? Are the kids musical too?