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The Bumsnet/Angry Pubes Bus

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Nomio230 · 27/03/2015 13:57

If you like to talk rubbish & refuse to give up your seat for anyone, this is the place for you! Come and ebjoy our Zen Den & a Nutella Cellar. Grin
No LPBs allowed. Angry

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Southy84 · 27/03/2015 17:12

Can I join? I'm rubbish at keeping up but I'll try my best!

GlitteryLipgloss1 · 27/03/2015 17:18

anyone done any different positions lately? I have three days worth of nobbing to look forward to and fancy a new position.

Mummyofonesofar · 27/03/2015 17:23

MrsB sorry about your row with DH, I hope you chat tonight and can commit to ttc wholeheartedly.

Toadie/Oyster can I join POAS Monday if no AF, 10dpo today.

Juney sorry about shitty temps, fx they go back up and you get your bfp. I will PM my addy and of course help with the stats!

Sparkly did I spy a positive opk, go go go!

Nomio thanks for the great bus - was sort of straddling both but crap at it, so glad we can stick together! LPB haha!! Good luck with the house viewings tonight and tomorrow!

WFYWGBY I also have very very dry skin on my face!

juneybean · 27/03/2015 17:24

melon when's your AF due?!

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 17:26

Ha no was waiting for DH to get home. Now have bum firmly on pillow :)

juneybean · 27/03/2015 17:29

Also I need to have a little moan, like I know it's not quite over for me yet (despite my AF rumblings) but my two closest friends have made me feel grumpy, one couldn't ring me because she was doing xyz but is always there for her other friend (such as ringing her when she was visiting me...) and my other lovely friend who I feel bad for being grumpy at was saying the usual "couples try for months" and I know that I really do, but I've had assisted conception twice and I've done AI twice and I just feel so defeated, I stupidly thought that because I'd never been anywhere near sperm since I was 18 that I'd just have to look at the vial and become pregnant! Anywho, onwards and upwards, will see what Monday brings, may not be able to line up a donor for April but least we have a monthless bus to hang around on

Sorry such a rant! I love our bus

ThePug · 27/03/2015 17:31

Jeez night that was a quick ermmm, turnaround! DH must have barely walked in the door!

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 17:31

What positions do you usually do Glittery? There are several karma sutra apps that give you different positions :)

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 17:33

It was indeed a quickie pug. I think DH had his trousers off within 10 seconds Grin

Butterchunks · 27/03/2015 17:34

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MelonMelon · 27/03/2015 17:36

Hahaha I love it! If you looked at all our combined Google searches we'd need locking up. I have 2 cats and they're very needy anyway so can't use that as a symptom.
Last weekend my friends DD's were all over me like a rash and even she said "you're popular!" Which I of course googled.....

MelonMelon · 27/03/2015 17:41

Sorry juney ! Felt weird posting 'bfp due 2nd April' that day has mixed emotions as it's the due date of my little bean that we lost last year. Fx for a happy coincidence

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Oysterbabe · 27/03/2015 17:45

Please do Mummy Smile
I thought I said my age. must be my age [wink
34.

juneybean · 27/03/2015 17:45

aww sorry melon it's an official test date rather than a BFP due date! (if that helps at all...!)

I'm all aloneee butter happily so! but I have my two good friends who do generally hold my hand through it but they're just not letting me cry about it, they're being too positive and I just don't feel positive today!

woodpigeon123 · 27/03/2015 18:00

Hello!

####STATS#####
TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 20 April

Fab idea for a new bus xxxxx

toadierocks · 27/03/2015 18:01

Ah Juney, Sorry you're feeling low, keep the faith that it will happen. Sounds like you've been on a big journey so far, really hoping you get your deserved BFP soon! big hugs to you xx Also sorry for my incomplete stats.....Blush I'm 31

Mummyofonesofar - yes POAS party Monday AM :) you're on the guest list

Butterchunks - thanks for the nectar points tip - I love a good ebay session too!

mrsb0710 · 27/03/2015 18:16

Hello fabulous ladies, I thought I'd lost you all. A never ending bus, what a great idea.

First of all purdey liar liar pants on fire!!

Felt like a right grumpy bitch all day. Got home to a parcel....containing a free baby bottle. FML. Must have been from something I signed up to when I got my bfp. Not the day I needed reminding I'm not pregnant.

DH has been ok and we had a little talk, basically involving me telling him not to be a silly twat, and throwing a pack of men's fertility vitamins at him. That'll learn him. I've told him we've been through this before, that our baby wont grow up destitute, and that I'm sure friends and family will help. That's what grandmas and baby showers are for.

I guess I'm officially in my TWW, but I'm not holding out much hope this time. Onwards, and upwards and all that jazz.

Thank you once again to every on who has been so supportive, I sometimes feel so isolated, but you all really do help.

juney sometimes friends just don't get it. I'm sorry.

Had a friend msg DH and I on FB today, to tell him she's concerned about me, but couldn't be bothered to pick up the phone for 3 months. I may have lessened my contact when she told me "I'm sure the doctor can give you something to fix it" when I had my mc. Shock. Yup.....um, thanks.

Hopefully the sun will be out this weekend and I can chill a bit. Cakeall round.

Oh stats. Sorry ########mrsb0710 #TTC 1 #Cycle 3 #AF due 10 April ###########

whitwoochantelle · 27/03/2015 18:29

i hope that post wasn't aimed at me i was trying for over 3 years starting clomid with several m/c !. think il keep my mouth shut! but thanks anyway!

juneybean · 27/03/2015 18:31

eh?

dojo123 · 27/03/2015 18:33

Spoke to my sis on messenger today (she is currently staying with my little bro and his girlfriend). She asked how I was as she is the only family member that knows I'm TTC and knew of my mc at the end jan/beg feb. I told her I got a bit upset and she said she thought I might have. I asked her how she felt as she starts IVF next month. She's ok. She said she had come to terms with the fact she's unlikely to ever get pregnant naturally and so probably wasn't as hurt as I was by the news.

I face also just bought 5 tests for next week. Either to invoke the law of sod and AF turn up or that I only require one as the BFP line will be super strong on the first one I use I won't need to test any others wishful thinking

juneybean · 27/03/2015 18:34

Aww dojo it's nice you could talk to her though.

Fingers crossed for next week!

dojo123 · 27/03/2015 18:37

mrsb can't believe your friend said that after you mc. How insensitive and then not to get in touch for three months. I'm sorry but she doesn't seem worth your friendship.

juney hugs to you. Sorry you're feeling so low. You have lots of support on here so please vent/rant do whatever you need to do to feel more positive about things. I really hope AF stays away for you and you get your bfp.

dojo123 · 27/03/2015 18:42

juney also joining you in the 'eh?'

whitwoochantelle · 27/03/2015 18:43

orginal poster! i wasn't after a well done/pat on the back ... was wishing luck n not to give up hope! just because i don't post on every bus doesn't mean i don't understand how hard it is! Unfortunately some were to quick to critise a statement that was ment to be nice and telling you not to give up hope!