March Bus - the journeys may be different but destination for all - BFP land!

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Another March bus for us chatty lot! No religion or politics but feel free to bitch away about life/DH/work/too much sex/not enough sex.

Remember to update us with your changes in stats in a separate post with lots of #### to signify an update.

Let's get our BFPs!!!

I love FB! Also love seeing what some of you look like :) If anyone wants to befriend me, lemme know. I do post quite a few pics of my doggies though...

Well... cycle#1, it was nice knowing ya but the pink tinged cm I just saw must mean its time to part ways. I'll probably meet that cow AF in the morning.

Cycle#2... let's learn from Cycle#1's mistakes and do this properly this time. Okay?

I'm officially out.

All is not lost though. This was my first proper cycle after having the Mirena coil removed and I was scared it would feck my cycles up hugely. However, if AF arrives tomorrow it will me an exact 14 day LP. So at least I know where I'm up to!

I have a hot water bottle under my feet at present mama Juney ! I know.. Don't like these temps!! Come on!!!

ohh wotsits sorry! :( I won't update your stats just in case it's not AF! :)

Oh sorry Wotsits but on the bright side.. It gives you another Couple weeks to come up with that magical egg fertilisation monitor! It's early days love.. Cycle 2 is the one! Sending positive thoughts for next cycle.. Only two weeks till you can try again!

Thanks Juney and Sparkly!! Juney you can update my stats... I'm pretty certain its AF. I'm actually OK and not too bugged... at least I know my cycles regular! ov on CD 18 of a 32 day cycle. That's what it was 8 years ago when I had dd!

new stats... age 35... TTC#2... cycle 2... bfp due 8th April

sorry wotsits

you know we haven't had any abba this month....

Thanks coffee!

wotsits, may I inquire about the age gap between your DD and potential baby please? I had wanted a 3 year gap between my children and that opportunity is now gone and we're looking at a 4 year gap all being well. This is making me twitchy (irrationally because my brother and I are 4 years apart and it felt like we led separate childhoods). I'm trying to become comfortable with an age gap larger than planned and I'm enjoying hearing about people's reasons for larger that 'typical' gaps.

Af found me tonight, new stats;

Trixie, 33, Ttc #1, cycle 16, BFP due 6 April

Sorry trixie :(

Thanks Juney

Aurora, sorry AF arrived so early, joining you on the gin terrace!

Morning.

I have made it to 12 dpo == 11 day lp (aat least!) Yay!

BFN this morning though. Boo!

Good luck to anyone else testing!

Sorry I seemed like I posted and disappeared - we're 4hrs ahead here so it was bed time. Woke up at 4am feeling very sick. Whilst sat on the side of the bath waiting to throw up I wondered if it could be morning sickness. It won't be, seeing as I don't even ovulate, but you know what it's like :)

Purdey that's great news that people in my situation often get pregnant quickly when on medication. I hope that's the case. My friend had issues then went on clomid. She produced one huge egg (instead of 3 small ones) and ended up with the most gorgeous baby. I've ordered one of those :) I will definitely report back with what the doctor says.

Also, I know plenty of people who are raising 2 kids in their 40s and doing a much better job of it than the people I know in their 20s, so that theory is worthless!

This is rubbish with AF getting so many of us so early :( I do think though that April has a nice ring to it. I mean, nobody wants to be heavily pregnant at xmas do they? And nobody wants a Christmas Day/NYE birthday do they? (Say no, it'll make us feel better)

Thanks Coffee! Can't believe it xx

Morning

MrsG, yay for the longer luteal phase but bah to the bfn.

Terry, so lovely to see you, 13 weeks! So pleased things are progressing well. You must have had your scan by now?

Purdey, you're right it will pass but it must be so hard. You are such a strong lady and Nancy is lucky to have you as her Mum. I'll pm you later about fb.

Sparkly, thanks for the cacao bites no news on the funeral as yet. Yesterday my uncles son had the awful task of going to my uncles ex gf's house with the police to get his belongings. When my cousin looked through his dad's phone he found lots of threatening texts from ex gf cousin had also been recieving threatening letters from her! I never met her but she is clearly a mad lunatic bitch!! Thankfully he managed to get quite a lot of stuff including some of my Grandads war medals.
Anyway I'm meeting my mum this morning for a walk and some brekkie. Hoping I can get her to eat something before she makes herself ill.

Coffee.. my dd is 8! I'm not at all worried about the age gap. My sister and I are 20 months apart and don't get on at all (she's an actual cow) whereas my cousin who is 9years older than me is like my sister. It just wasn't right for me to try any earlier. I never wanted another child until recently.

Please don't worry about the age gap. All kids are different and age is but a number that, in my opinion, has no bearing on comparability.

AF has arrived full force this morning. Right on cue!

Aww sorry Trixie! me too

Sorry to hear of the new afs and bfns this morning may everyone enjoy a couple of glasses of wine with their Sunday roasts today to make up for it.

Cd5 here, boring! Not even temped so far this month, but I might start around cd9/10 just so I can see that ovulation happens... Haven't quite decided, although I am enjoying not waking up at 5am every morning to test! Xx

Ooh how are we doing the fb friending? Who do I need to PM? So far have just followed Juney on Twitter :)

You can add me on fb too if you like, same user name :D

Genuinely can't find you, all I get is Hugh Hefner (juney's real identity is finally revealed). Will send you PM with my name although my privacy settings are quite strict so you might not be able to find me :s

Thanks for the reassurance wotsits

FF has confirmed me being 3dpo. Still curious about ovulating on the day of my pos opk but I had ov pains so I do think it's correct..

Hahaha victoria had that problem too!

coffee ff did that to me last month hen I ended up doctoring my temp cos I felt it was wrong!