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TTC after mc #4

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 12/02/2015 14:44

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mrsdiddlydoo · 11/03/2015 13:18

Glad you're homeward bound mrsC. Hope your dh waits on you hand and foot until you're back on your feet and you are smothered by TLC and chocolate. Not sure which parallel universe I'm imagining right now. It will be lovely to be back in your own bed.

chasingtherainbow · 11/03/2015 13:22

So glad you're headed home. Please keep comfy and safe. Thinking of you! X

Amyyy27 · 11/03/2015 13:22

MrsC Glad you are able to go home. Now lots of rest and TLC xx

Bristolian1 · 11/03/2015 14:07

So glad to hear you're going home MrsC Flowers hope you are safely tucked up in bed being spoiled

Gr33dyeggs · 11/03/2015 16:30

MrsC Flowers Take care of yourself.

ladydoc · 11/03/2015 16:30

Have been away from the message boards for a few days - sorry to hear what has happened to you Mrs C. You sound amazingly strong and brave about it all. I hope that you can get comfy at home now, and get lots of treats and rest. Thinking of you x

How is everyone else doing? Any news today?
I'm still impatiently in my TWW, but getting a bit down-hearted. Just don't feel anything, other than grumpy and emotional today. No other symptoms to report. Last time my boobs were aching pretty much as soon as I conceived(!), so I suspect I'm out this month. On the other hand, maybe it's good that it's not the same as last time - that didn't end well obviously.

chasingtherainbow · 11/03/2015 18:22

Just another quickie: does anyone want these clear blue opks and a digi preg test?

MimiDoddrioni · 11/03/2015 20:43

MrsC glad you home and getting looked after Flowers.

I had my follow up MC appt, all clear and ready to go again if we want. But have also been referred to the RMC for tests and have discovered that I have a tilted uterus.

epskie · 11/03/2015 20:45

Thinking of you MrsC you're incredibly brave x

chasing I'd be very grateful for them? I can paypal you postage? Thank you xx

Cariad2014 · 11/03/2015 22:13

Just thought I'd pop on to say that I'm thinking of you MrsC. Flowers Such rubbish news. I had an ectopic and my right tube removed in September so do feel free to PM me if you have any questions.

On a positive note, there were two ladies on these threads when I had my ectopic last year and both went on to have a healthy pregnancy within 6 months of an ectopic and a tube removal.

chasingtherainbow · 12/03/2015 07:02

Pm'd you epskie

Romeolovesjuliet · 12/03/2015 07:18

How are you doing today Mrs C?

epskie · 12/03/2015 07:18

Thanks chasing x

CarrotPuff · 12/03/2015 09:11

MrsC I hope you are being looked after Flowers

Ladydoc I'm in the same boat. Getting a few twinges and "symptoms" but nothing definite and could easily be explained by something else. Also POASed yesterday on a whim and BFN. It wasn't fmu tough, and was very diluted wee of a well hydrated person Grin Then POASed this morning again with second mu but I had so little in that I weed for maybe 5 seconds Shock and BFN again. Getting very downhearted, I wish AF would show up already. If still nothing by Sat will test again, but not feeling very hopeful...

Also my former colleague had a baby today. A baby girl. It's her second. I just want to cry. I'm very happy for her, but I had a feeling I would be having a girl too with my last pregnancy. But I won't, she's gone Sad

MrsConfusion · 12/03/2015 09:16

Morning ladies, thanks for the positive stories cariad, I remembered that you'd been through this too.

Epskie fingers crossed that chasing's lucky sticks work for you!

I'm still tired and sore this morning but better than yesterday after sleeping in own bed (despite dd needing cuddles at 5am, poor little thing is all confused). My mum's coming down today for a quick visit. It's her birthday, not exactly how she planned to spend it...

hope you all have good days, some sunny spots here which is nice to see.

Mimi great for all clear to try again (when you're ready!), and that you've been referred for a bit more support. Do you know what the implications of tilted uterus are?

brickiemum2 · 12/03/2015 10:02

Hi everyone. Jumping back in as I started af this morning. First one since mmc. So technically I'm now firmly on cd 1 and good to go.

maverick79 · 12/03/2015 11:13

Morning, I'm back in too as AF just started. First AF since my second m/c. Hoping being back here will help me to look at my position as positively as possible and see this as a start of getting back in control and actively TTC once again in some good company.

epskie · 12/03/2015 12:59

Thanks MrsC I do too! Glad you're feeling a little better x

Mimi I have a tilted uterus and I have 2 children, 15 and 9, had my first mc in december. Only implications I've had are some difficulty when having a sm3ar and ultrasound scans xx

MimiDoddrioni · 12/03/2015 13:57

epskie thanks for the reassurance that a tilted uterus is nowt to worry about. It's hard to know what to think is useful information and what isn't when medical professionals just make these offhand comments whilst wiggling a scan stick about insides Confused. Also I swear American pregnancy websites are worse scaremongers than the daily mail Angry.

Am not to sure if I should really be hanging about on this thread as in two minds as to whether to give up on ttc whilst I get tested or just keep going anyway as it could be months before I get another BFP Hmm.

ladydoc · 12/03/2015 16:58

Hi carrot. Sorry you're feeling down today. It's hard when you get news of other people's babies. I also caved in and POAS - BFN. It was a frer at 10dpo. Feeling despondent but won't give up hope until af comes.
mrs c thinking of you and hope you are doing as well as can be expected x

Romeolovesjuliet · 12/03/2015 18:46

Hi ladies, hope everyone is ok particularly Mrs C. Also feeling a bit despondent here, CD 16 and still getting highs on cbfm (since CD9) when I would normally get a peak at CD14. I know it might be because it's the first cycle so it's getting used to me or it might be because of the mmc so I'm going to ov late or my hormones are all over the place but it's frustrating not knowing. I think I may have ov'd but can't be sure so kind of have to keep Dtd until the monitor goes to low! I did do ov sticks the month after my mc when we conceived DD and never got a smiley but obvs did ov so clinging to that.
lady sorry about the bfn - it sucks.

mrsdiddlydoo · 12/03/2015 20:13

Romeo i've no experience with the fertility monitor but I know it takes a while to get use to you. Since my last mc I can't get positives on cb dual hormone opk. Or their more basic tests. But someone confirmed I had ov when I had a scan a week ago. Its so annoying getting repeat highs with no peak.

mrsC I hope you survived your day OK and got more sleep. Cuddles at 5am sounds much nicer than a hospital bed. How are you feeling? x

Nothing new to report here except I'm being a right cowbag to dh so AF had to be on her way. Hurry up please please...

mrsdiddlydoo · 12/03/2015 20:14

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epskie · 12/03/2015 20:52

Ladies hoping for advice (again!) Firstly, my antibiotics have caused a terrible case of thrush :-( I've never had it before and its horrid. I've had the cream, the pressure and the cream and I'm drinking actimel every day, still it's not shifting (been over a week)
Secondly, I'm taking opks everyday (all neg so far) my erpc was a fortnight ago, bleeding stopped 6 days ago, today I'm spotting! Any ideas? Thanks everyone x

epskie · 12/03/2015 20:52

Pessary not pressure!