TTC after mc #4

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And I've only got 1 frer left!

Sending you good vibes Chasing! Fingers crossed x

Yep, definitely miscarrying now , but feeling pretty ok about it all. I don't really know how to explain it other than this pregnancy never really felt like it was real so am not all surprised that it's failed already, hey-ho.

Anywho, the lack of anything baby-like in my scan should mean that we can get back to ttc once my feeble hcg levels are back down.

Thanks for all the messages, you ladies are great for keeping a gal's spirits up .

Oh heaven I am so.. so sorry. Are you bring looked after and as comfortable as can be? I've been thinking of you. I really really hope you recover well and get your bfp take home baby v soon xxx

Sorry to hear that Heaven. That's so unfair and shitty. Hope you have lots of love and support x

Im so sorry heaven that is so cruel and unfair for you. I hope you have a lot of support in RL and we are all here thinking of you x

So sorry Heaven what a horrible thing for you to go through again. Sending hugs

So sorry heaven it's just so unfair. Hope you have plenty of support

Oh heaven, I'm so sorry. I hope it passes as quickly and easily as possible for you.

Lots of love to you Heaven. So sorry this is happening

Oh heaven so sorry, take care of yourself

I'm new to this thread so don't know the background, but I'm so sorry for your loss Heaven. It is the worst place to be and hope you have lots of support.

Thanks for all the helpful comments - I feel much calmer about the hen do now. I will defo be setting the alarm extra early on Friday and making the most of that opportunity before enjoying the weekend. Ovia is rubbish in a lot of ways but helped me track. The first time I used it it asked me when my last af was, which was very confusing after a mc! I have some opks and am going to start using them now as I'm building up to ov.
What you said Bristolian about this feeling that you have to get pg again straight away really resonated with me. It's felt like the only thing that's kept me going over the last two months - the thought that we can try again. Nine weeks today since awful 12 week scan, eight weeks since mc - all I could think this time last week is that I should be going for the anomaly scan now. But I'm feeling more positive now. Long may it last.

Best of luck to all. So good to see so many pg on this thread, it gives me hope. xx

heaven I am so sorry. How totally rubbish.

Tomcat I often have those "I would be.." thoughts. I should be finishing work next month. But I'm not. And it feels so odd, that pregnancy seems to go so slow and yet I should already be at that stage. It makes my mc feel so far away now.

On another note...

I had a faint bfp this morning

heaven So sorry this has happened again.

chasing whispers woohoo

Whispers - yey chasing! What dpo?

eeek chasing congrats!!

Tomcat same here. I would have been due 26th May, and its fast approaching :( damn unfair this world at times.

My edd was may 22nd.

11dpo and it was vvvv faint. If I look closely it's pink and I spotted it within the first minute so I don't think it's an evap but I'm holding out any real celebration until AF is late and I've had a digi confirm.

chasing whispered congratulations. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.....

chasing hand holding until AF is late

Keep getting AF like feelings. I don't remember this from dd .. though it was so long ago. .Argh.

Off for some sea air and will leave my phone behind x

Congrats chasing!
Just wanted to pop on to say I'm still having af like feelings and I'm 11+5 now :)

heaven So sorry, that is rubbish. Hope you are looking after yourself and being looked after.

chasing Best of luck. Everything is crossed for you. Sea air is definitely a good idea.

I got a positive on my opk yesterday evening - even stronger than the control line, so hoping this means my body is getting back on track and is no longer feeling sorry for itself. Unless a really dark line is a terrible thing...

I feel like ever since I got my bfp in February I've done nothing but worry. I spoke to my mum and she said 'yeah, that never really goes away'. She was always a relatively laid back parent so that made me feel a bit better. At least the madness is just your regular madness, and not something else to worry about!

Chasing that's super exciting!

Everything crossed here for you.

AF feelings are so normal in early pregnancy.

Iv been keeping on with my OPKs after late ovulation last month. I did get strong positives on CD 14&15 so I'm pretty sure I ovulated. Anyway, the lines went really light until 6dpo and then have got gradually darker though not positive. Not sure if I'm going to ovulate again or its a sign of a BFP? I'm 8 dpo now. I don't want to say this out loud but I do feel pregnant this time. Hurry up Sunday so I can test!